What does it mean to have erotic integrity? Do you have enough?
The answer for most of us is a resounding – inexcusable – no!
Few of us have an honest answer to this question. Of course, most of us have answers about sex, but we’re usually wrong. Miserably wrong. As in flunking. We get an “F” because even though we’re able to fuck, we are not really sexual, not our true sexual-self – for ourselves or our lovers. Most of us flunk the “Erotic Integrity Test” – there is a quiz you can take (#3 below).
“Just because the penis goes in the vagina every once and a while doesn’t make it good.” – Dr. Claudia Six
If we give a damn
If we give a damn about sex – good sex, great sex, not just fucking – and improving our sexual life, then we need to learn much more. It’s a “lifetime learning” course that most of us are failing, badly. Dr. Claudia Six, a clinical sexologist and relationship coach, offers a brief test at her website that can help you see how your erotic integrity measures up – to your needs.
Knowledge and resources are at hand
Here are three must hear, see and read resources to get you started.
- Read Erotic Integrity. First read the book review. You can buy it at Love & Sexcess Bookstore (20% off).
- Watch Dr. Six’s TEDx Talk (10 min): Sexual Performance Anxiety (see below).
- Take the Erotic Integrity Quiz.
Magna Cum Laude?
“Know your body and what brings you pleasure.” – Dr. Six (TEDx)
The book review, book and TEDx talk are more than enough to get you started, get you to a passing grade on the test, and hell, maybe achieve Summa Cum Laude in sex … even Magna Cum Laude.
Whatever your ambition, whatever your desire, whatever your commitment to a passing grade in sex, this is a good place to start.
Read Book Review >>
Buy book (20% off) at Love & Sexcess Bookstore >>
Watch TEDx talk, Sexual Performance Anxiety here (10 min):
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