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The Dying Animal

A classic tale of old man-young woman sexual reality Must-read rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ (Must-read ratings (1♥ – 5♥) are based on the contribution to understanding and enjoyment in love, sex & success. "Stop worrying about growing…
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In honor of masturbation, we honor …

the passing of renowned 'solo sex' advocate, pro-sex feminist, sex educator Betty Dodson (1929-2020) (2 min) “A real orgasm is something that no matter where it comes from, a woman takes for herself.” – Betty Dodson Betty Dodson…
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“Upsucking” is a special penis talent …

that owners and renters know nothing about. (5 min read) The penis is known throughout the world by men and women (the vast majority) and yet, so little is known about "him." Why do we know so little about such an essential life giving,…
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“Men” … what are they good for?

A helluva lot more than they actually think they are! #MeToo is a movement, and a good one. It's making headway and we've "come a long way baby," but still have a long way to go. And women aren't alone in needing a movement, so do men. Ladies,…
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Big dicks suck!

and "boyfriend dicks" are "perfect" "'The boyfriend dick' is not too big, not too small. Just perfect. Looks pretty.” – Harry Jowsey, Netflick's Too Hot To Handle, reality-TV show Kayla Kibbe has written a call-it-like-it-is article that…
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A smaller dick is a male advantage and …

comedian Helen Donahue is not joking, she's dick serious! "Big Dick Energy is not real and it is not your friend." – Helen Donahue Playboy and Helen Donahue get frank, funny and insightful – and real – about why the topic of "Big Dick…
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A ‘boyfriend dick’ is a penis you could …

settle down with – or at least see three times a week.  "Big, but I’m not sure exactly how big; not huge, but I was happy when I saw it…” — I finally arrived on a phrase that felt right. This guy had a “boyfriend dick.” Amanda…
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From lust to love in New York …

In "smokey hotel rooms with drawn shades buried deep within the city, we had but one purpose. Indulgence." Great story and lessons learned from living the secrets of lust to a mindset for love – with someone else. Read (4 min) at Elephant…
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Mathilde: A short story

Mathilde (15 minute read) Mathilde was a hat maker in Paris and barely twenty when she was seduced by the Baron. Although the affair did not last more than two weeks, somehow in that short time she became, by contagion, imbued with his philosophy…
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Intelligence is the sexiest attribute, the brain …

the most important sex organ and sexy librarians the most popular fantasy Grab your library card, and check out this wild book of erotica – 22 short, salacious, not-to-be-forgotten carnal reads. Images that will last long after you are 'finished.'…
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“Sexual kinks” are good for us and …

our sexual health, understanding and communications. (4 min read) "Our sexual fantasies, quirks and kinks aren’t just preferences, but powerful messages." So many more of us should give ourselves permission to embrace our fantasies. And…
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Six ways to “play with me” and …

they are all fantasies we can bring to life in the bedroom "We all fantasize, some more than others. A majority of women fantasize about the three most popular/common fantasies: Group sex, orgies, gangbangs. Threesomes: 89% Orgies:…
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Sexual fantasies are a true mirror and …

a beautiful reflection of ourselves and our relationships. (5 min) “89% [of us] fantasize about threesomes" [and] the majority of women have sexual fantasies about these three: threesomes, orgies and gangbangs. - TMWYW We've included…
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Was Covid-19 the End of Sex?

During Covid most single people had no idea when or where their next fuck was coming from. “If I knew the last time I had sex would be the last time I was having sex, I would’ve sexed harder." –  Ziwe Fumudoh, comedy writer, tweeted. That…
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Is this the dawn of a new age of sex?

or just "a shit ton of casual sex" version 2.0? Here's what 2,000 people have to say – thanks to a recent survey by the Kinsey Institute and Cosmo. In 4 minutes you will get some amazing insights and statistics on what the future of sex might…
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“Tinder is the night” but the morning after

is a whole different story. "When it's so easy, when it's so available to you, it's very hard to contain yourself." What a difference a few years makes. Not long ago Tinder, Hinge, Happn and "guys with a text game" changed the hookup world…
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Are you ready for post-pandemic sex?

It could be great, it good be disastrous ... get ready! Business and stores are not the only ones getting ready to reopen, so are our sex lives. It's been too long. “You’re a different person now. We all are.”– Courtney Kocak, co-host…
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“Situationships are shit and …

they rarely end amicably." "They are unbalanced and divisive; they are valueless and demeaning; they are a passage to inevitable disappointment and a voyage into the bay of despair." – Rachael Nixon Situationships are not friends with benefits…
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Unhooked – understanding the ‘hooked up’ culture and …

the sexual and romantic lives of young people Here's the basic premise of the book: Hooking up offers girls the opportunity to exert their independence, explore their sexual desires and capabilities and try to keep their emotional lives under…
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Friends With Benefits – NOT built to last.

'Built to last' is a Ford truck slogan and it sure as hell doesn't apply to FWB. On the surface, it might seem like a good idea, but it's up against science, evolution and genetics. In fact, it's maybe the worst idea ever. These two articles…
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Is the “Age of Tinder” dead?

Dr. Ruth says it always should have been dead. Because it could kill you. "Don’t hop into bed just because you didn’t have sex for a year and a half." – Dr. Ruth Fair warning from the renowned, 93-year-old sex guru, Dr. Ruth. She makes…
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“Situationships,’ ‘Friends with benefits’ and …

many things 20-somethings should think about. Last fall we were interviewed by Alisha Mahmood, co-founder of "pushing20s," a movement, a website and a magazine pushing to inspire, support and inform 20-something women. On Instagram, Alsiha…