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The Secrets of Sexually Woke [a podcast]

If you do not have time to read Dr. Susan's book Sexually Woke: Awaken the Secrets to Your Best Sex Life in Midlife & Beyond then 55 minutes of your time is well invested listening to her podcast, which captures the essence of her most powerful…
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Erotic women can be leaders and this ode …

 "I am Woman" is a tribute to sexually empowered women. (3 min) "I am erotic. My sexual energy can be soft and sensual as well as provocative ... It’s a magical energy that I wouldn’t share with just anyone. You have to earn that privilege."…
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Ask for what you want …

and get it: 5 Qualities of Sexually Empowered Women (3 min) "A woman isn’t fully empowered unless and until she is sexually empowered." If you need a lift in your sexual empowerment or your libido or your sex life, these 5 qualities just…
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What does sexual empowerment feel like?

And how can we feel empowered, every day? (3 min) "35% of women take a condom with them when going on a date where they may have sex for reasons like not wanting to seem presumptuous, not liking condoms, or being too embarrassed." All we…
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Sexual empowerment is not about quantity

it's about quality – and your sexual empowerment! (6 min) "Sexual empowerment can absolutely mean having a lot of sex, but it doesn't have to. You can also be having tons of sex and not be sexually empowered. What it boils down to is power…
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“Fuck Him … Fuck Tinder …

and take control of your dating and sex life – and the men in your life! "Fuck him in this case is not physical, it's mental." This short pithy, beautifully candid book, "Fuck Him! Nice Girls Always Finish Single" (we'd say unfulfilled…
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Sex toys can be sex-after-40’s best friend …

but shopping for them can be a bit overwhelming. (a fascinating 7 minute shopping guide) "Not only do you have to figure out what everything does, you also have to figure out if it aligns with how you like it to be done." Browse to your hearts…
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Six tips for the best sex of your life …

after 50. Hell, after 40. "Orgasm is not an event, it’s a process, and it starts and finishes with connection" – Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith Some perspicacious woman once said, "Until you are forty, it's all practice." Nowhere is that more…
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Let the magic of after-40 sex begin …

with an awakening that can be "magical." (4 min) "We have spent our whole adult lives trying to give ourselves to something outside of ourselves." – Debbi Serafinchon In just 4 minutes this article just might give you some insight as to…
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One thing better after 40 is … sex

Five things that make the sex at age 40 better than anytime before. (6 min) [Photo: Cary Grant and Eva Marie Saint were beautifully over 40 in North by Northwest - no sex scenes back then but bet they had it] "Sex is dramatically better…
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One unimaginable murderous truth and …

one irresistible erotic attraction! The only thing more intriguing than sexy sheriff Mike Cougar is the murder mystery and the carnal need for his too-sexy-to-be-a-cop deputy sheriff, Gritt Hansen, Olympic medalist in the women’s 400 metres. …
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How are your pelvic floor and Kegel exercises doing?

From The Health Gap, “The Mystery of the Pelvic Floor:" Millions of women have problems with their pelvic floor and yet, most problems are minor. But who knows for sure? Kegel exercises for girls and young women are sometimes good, other times…
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Why do women sexually disrespect and …

deny their sexual needs, and their partner's? (4 min) "57.1% of women want their partner to feel successful." This fake orgasm contagion is only going to get solved if we women resolve to change our nurturing, submissive, disrespectful treatment…
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National Orgasm Day for women is …

no holiday from orgasms. That can happen any day of the year. (1 min) Yes, there really is a National Orgasm Day (July 31 every year) and it's celebrated around the world. It might help with awareness of the problem but not sure how much…
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What Is The Orgasm Gap?

More women experience the reality of the 'orgasm gap' than know what the scientifically coined phrase means. But we should all understand it and with 'National Orgasm Day' being celebrated on July 31st women everywhere should celebrate orgasms…
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Single woman having sex on her lunch break

This week's The Cut Sex Diaries, is from a 27 year-old single woman in Manhattan having sex with new guys after a recent break up.   10:40 a.m. Logan, a guy I met on Hinge who lives in my neighborhood, texts me to come over for midday…
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Backseat Baseball

No homerun but he's an MVP by Charles, 20, California From the book, Laid edited by Shannon Boodram (5 min read) “CHARLES, DID I EVERTELL YOU HOW HOT YOU ARE?” asked Joanne, while she was blowing cigarette smoke out of her…
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“Open Me,” the story of a virgin-once-removed and

her once-in-a-lifetime, summer of sex and self-discovery "The love you feel is for yourself, Roxana. It is freedom speaking its joy to you." Forget Nancy Drew, Harlequin Dare and porn, every teenage girl should read Open Me – as well as…
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I found my Valentine ❤️ in a universal change room

By LORI HUGHES I had no idea how universally great universal change rooms could be for my sex life I love to swim, always have. I find it both hedonistic and masochistic, even narcissistic. I swam competitively in school and won a bunch of…
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Norwegian sex-ed show teaches kids to …

French kiss and masturbate (video 6 min) Those damn Norwegians, they're so smart and advanced when it comes to sex. This would never happen in Canada or America ... pity. This is sex-ed as it should be, Norwegian style. Norway's state-funded…
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Masturbation has multiple health benefits

and during Covid the benefits would've increased significantly. (5 min) "Men masturbate almost twice as much as women: 14.8 times per month versus 7.8 times per month." Here is an article, "How Often Do Americans Masturbate" that gives you…
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How to masturbate with …

a Vagina: 28 Tips and Tricks for Solo Play. (7 min) "Sure, exercise is a great way to relieve stress and improve your sleep. But so is enjoying a little one-on-one time with you and your body." Any article with 28 tips about masturbation…
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Party for One

Each year millions celebrate National Masturbation Day, which was so-named in 1995, and although we do not know how widely it is celebrated, we do know it is not confined to one day a year. Doctors now tell us that masturbation reduces…
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Without masturbation – solo sex –

we cannot love a partner fully! (3 min) "It's sex with someone you love.” – Woody Allen Woody Allen understands the wonderful benefits of masturbation but tens-of-millions of people don't – especially women. Masturbation,…
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In sex “fake” is destructive but …

sex in fiction is regenerative and renewing. (5 min)  "74% of women who read erotic fiction have more sex." We have posted an excerpt from the novel, Deadsizing: One unimaginable murderous truth and one irresistible erotic attraction. Lori…