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Post-covid sex: Just when we thought it was safe to jump back in bed

This fuckin' Covid virus is like a bad movie or a serial horror story and it could be the worst STD we've ever encountered. And it just might be coming back with a vengeance. Different name (Delta variant), same shit! Even Steven Spielberg couldn't…
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Is post-covid sex more adventurous or cautious?

Some of us now have FOGO (fear of going out) and FODA (fear of dating again). It's to be expected and we shouldn't be either guilt-ridden or dismissively 'don't-give-a-shit.' We should be reflective, thoughtful ... and do what's best for us.…
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Breaking up when you’re horny for someone new is not always a good idea!

“The two worst times in your life to make an important decision are when you’re feeling really, really bad and really, really good." – Peter Pearson. Millions of us are in this conflicting post-covid state. But lusting and leaping into…
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Tinder and swiping for sex were synonymous until …

Covid changed the way we want our sex – quality over quantity! No more bleeding fingers from swiping for sex on Tinder, like other 'perks' in our sex lives, Tinder has been changed by Covid. Tinder wants to be more than just a sex swipe…
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Hindsight is worth a million ‘hook ups’

Did Covid sexual distancing teach us anything about casual sex? "I was eating men like a praying mantis ... it was a dependency." – Pavlina Fedakova In this 3 minute article one woman rips the veneer off of millions of women's emotional…
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Fuck sexual distancing and solo sex …

here's a story about wild, glorious sex and avoiding the virus. (6 min) "I loved it. He filled me with affirmation. Fuck sexual distancing. He was a hunk. A lawyer. Lived on Fifth Avenue – a $5 million pad. Came from money. It was the sexual…
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5 reasons women AND men fake orgasms.

"In my early 20s, I just wasn’t that interested in sex." – Lisa Hawkins Maybe it starts early? Here's a glimpse inside Lisa Hawkins's take on faking. Since not being "interested in sex," she has been a coach and counselor for 26 years…
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Why men are faking orgasms too and …

why they shouldn't perpetrate sex fraud. "Men are faking orgasms around 16 percent of the time." – Survey Fake orgasms are like a virus and we all need a large dose – a vaccination in the form of serious conversation – to increase our…

Is sex in fiction closer to reality than real sex?

Compare these three excerpts and decide for yourself. In the novel Conflict of Interest, Yale Walter's is more than  an investment risk for Victoria Dyson, he's an erotic and torturous conflict of interest between her financial responsibility…
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100 million fake orgasms everyday is …

the height of dishonesty, dissatisfaction and disillusionment! (2 min) "Two in three women fail to climax during every sex session." Worse, this number raises a million dollar question: What the fuck are we doing? Because we sure as hell…
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Women … stop the fiction.

Don't choke off your orgasms! "Entire sectors of women do not even know the vast capacity for their body." – Lotus Indigo Shakti Kruse Here is an excellent article (by a guy no less), that slams the cultural shame and fiction that society…
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Intellectual curiosity is a turn on for …

the sexual curiosity in your sapiosexuality (3 min). It's true. You might be a sapiosexual. And that's a good thing. And if your partner is ... wow! Remember, women who read about sex have 74% more sex. It gives erotica and reading about…
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Your best sex toy might be a sex journal

and here are 10 questions to start your journal. TL;DR – okay, here are 3 of the 10 questions: 1) How satisfied are you with your current sex life? 2) What are your top three strengths as a lover? 3) What does 'sexy' mean to you? Go…
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Truth and nothing but the truth in sex – no fucking way!

A survey from Superdrug Online revealed that when 'size matters' in sex, dishonesty is the biggest thing in the bedroom that comes between men and women. A major finding was that people tend to claim they are honest about sexual satisfaction…
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Sapiosexuals love to go deep and …

they love your oral sex skills. (7 min) Great article: 16 Ways to Turn On A Sapiosexual (aka The Brainy Person You're Super Into). "I remember being so hot for my 73-year-old sociology professor when I was a 20-year-old undergrad because…
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114 conversation starters for couples

from deep to sexy (5 min). If ever you've struggled to open up a conversation with your partner, here are a bunch of good ones from Kelly Gonsalves at mindbodygreen. Sample: If you could relive one of our sexual experiences, which would…
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Alluring photos capturing the dark, conflicting nature of motherhood.

(4 min read, a lifetime of images)  Norwegian photographer Marie Sjøvold documents the intimate changes in her body and family life after the birth of her child. The conflict she [Marie Sjøvold] seeks to show is not just personal. It…
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‘Getting it on’ after the baby arrives …

with leaky boobs and wonky libidos. (6 min) "Let's be real, sex after pregnancy is scary." – Emily Johnson Not only can our sex lives, relationships and life in general get pretty damn scary they can also be "messy" with leaky boobs, dormant…
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What’s killing your sex drive after kids?

The short answer: Motherhood. But it doesn't have to! Mother of a 22 month old daughter, Maria Garcia, explains in real-life terms the love-hate affair relationship with her after-birth body. And it isn't what you might think or millions of…
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You are not alone. But …

it's not all bad. “We know from research that a relationship that’s not given attention will get worse." – Tracy K. Ross, therapist A must-read article from Healthline. Elena Donovan Mauer offers up 8 insights and advice for navigating…
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‘Doubts and Fears Don’t Make You a Bad Parent’

Gen Z Mums On Having Kids Young. (4 min) "I'm just as much a other as anyone else." – Naemi, and Kalim, 1 Growing up while raising a child isn't easy. But despite the challenges and other people's judgment, young mothers have a lot…
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“You don’t have to hate your husband …

to love this book." (5 min) "It's far better to ask for what you need than silently stew." Here's an excellent summary and review by Elisabeth McKnight of How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids. Every mother (and her partner) should…
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How to let go of resentment–in 3 minutes

"Resentment is like putting on armor with inward spikes." – Brandilyn Tebo Short and sweet, this video by Brandilyn Tebo just might kick-start your efforts to rid yourself of resentment and release your authentic self into your own world…
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Piloerection – you might get one but …

it might not be what you want. (3 min) Piloerection (noun): The human response where hairs on the skin stand up on end as a physiological response to a strong emotional feeling such as extreme fear, sadness, joy and sexual arousal. "You…
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Stress is a libido crusher and …

you are not alone. It's way too fuckin' common! (6 min) Female sexual interest/arousal disorder (FSIAD) occurs when the body doesn’t respond to sexual stimulation. 40% of women experience some type of sexual dysfunction, such as FSIAD…
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If we don’t say “yes” authentically …

we say "yes" resentfully. And regrets follow. “If we don’t say yes authentically, we say yes resentfully, and that leads to far more problems than if we’d said no in the first place.” – Natalie Lue Here's a great article about the…
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Sexual performance? You’re not in charge …

your brain is. And you're in your head too much! (4 min) "If our genitals could speak, they would tell us that they do not appreciate feeling pressured to perform." – Aurika Valan Being in your head can be a problem when it comes to 'giving…