we say “yes” resentfully. And regrets follow.
“If we don’t say yes authentically, we say yes resentfully, and that leads to far more problems than if we’d said no in the first place.” – Natalie Lue
Here’s a great article about the “self-blaming bullshit” of the word “should” that is a terrible inhibitor of our self-worth and imprisoning our authenticity.
“With intention, we can transform “should” into a divining rod for personal growth.” – Molly Seabrook
Read more of article, “‘Should is Resentment in Disguise” at Elephant Journal (4 min) >>
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