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89% of us have had relationship sex issues

That's 9-of-10 of us missing out on a portion of one of life's greatest experiences. "This isn't just about sex, this is about your life." – Bez Stone Which of these two graphs looks like your life? (Bez Stone explains them in her revealing…
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14 tips for hot, sexy, steamy car sex!

Car sex made easier – like our mothers and grandmothers had it. "It's time to corrupt your Honda Civic." But you're probably going to need these 14 tips on how to elevate your car sex. Because you don't have the comfort and space mom and…

What is the virginity fraud?

It's misogynistic bullshit! Perpetrated to control women. Here's a great TEDx Talk by two bright young Norwegian women that in 11 minutes shatters the two biggest myths about virginity. Myth #1: Virgins bleed. Myth #2: Hymens are lost…
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20 penis sizes and shapes … and they’re all good!

There’s no such thing as a bad shape or size — just bad information on how to use it. (7 min) "Penises are as unique as the people they hang from, and they’re all good. More than good, really." Penis owners and penis renters need to…

Are you doing doggie sex wrong?

There's more to doggie sex than meets the eye – or the vagina's pleasure. Let's face it, not facing your lover during sex can have its drawbacks – less intimacy, more discomfort. Or not. What is so great about having your cervix pounded…
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Listen to the penis doctors – owners and renters!

Penis-havers and penis-borrowers should watch to this 2 minute video. A whole bunch of penis-owners, along with "Saturday Night Live" veteran Tim Meadows, make a funny and convincing case about the value of their boners ... and the value of…
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“Spontaneous desire” can sustain a lifetime of sexual connection

It's like a lightening bolt to the genitals – Kaboom! "Spontaneous desire is one of two ways couples sustain a strong lifetime of sexual connection," says Emily Nagoski Emily Nagoski, sex educator and author of the bestselling book, Come…

“Soaking Sex” and “Jump Hump” sex …

as only Mormon students (far from morons) can do it! (Two articles (1-2 min); 3 min video; and a Tik Tok demonstration). OMG! Leave it to the hypocrisy of religion to inspire students to invent "soaking sex" and "jump hump" sex. Ingenious! Sex…

Sex diet: Eat your way to better sex!

"What we eat can affect how enjoyable sex is." – Shamyra Howard They say, 'we are what we eat' and perhaps nowhere is this more important than in our sex lives. The good news is that with the right sex diet we can eat our way to better sex. Here's…
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Your vagina is not dead she is …

taking a nap. A clarion call for women and sex after 40. (2 min) You can have the best sex of your life after 40 and this book shows you the path. We slightly paraphrased Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith who said, "She's not dead, she's taking a…

How do you have “coregasm” orgasms?

Focus your exercise routine on the pleasure in your core. There is a whole book written about how to have coregasm orgasms called, The Coregasm Workout by Dr. Debby Herenick. If you are into enjoying great orgasms and having fun exercising…
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Want to start an intimate conversation?

This woman knows how. And tells us how in a great starter book "Watch their feet, not their mouth." The old axiom above is for measuring the value of a person's actions over their words – and it's a good guide – but Shamyra Howard's short,…
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Was pandemic a sex and CBD ‘field of dreams?’

Sex and cannabis became a pleasure-inducing pairing during the pandemic At the height of the pandemic (summer 2020) a Playboy survey found "daily cannabis consumption increased and daily alcohol consumption decreased while people sheltered…
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“Missionary” in sex can be ordinary

or it can create the deepest, trusting connection. "His aggression finds its denouement in her yielding." The missionary position is consider by many as "ordinary" – same old, same old – but it doesn't have to be. Even though we often…
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Sex, cannabis, women and community.

We need more of all of them. It's on us girls ... let's lead! Can women turn the tide and close a widening gender gap in cannabis? Women unite! Sex, cannabis, women and our community need us. The gender gap is pervasive We know women…
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We’ve been lied to about women’s sexuality …

and the truth is very different. It's quite normal, very exciting and easily understood. So learn all about it – read this New York Times bestseller It's amazing what honesty and science can do for our understanding. Enough knowledge and…
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Every women should see these photos & read the stories

Laura Dodsworth photographed 100 vulvas and this book exposes them and their beautiful stories. It is the ultimate in sharing. Reading this book is as valuable as having a deep, honest conversation with an intimate friend, a sex therapists…
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Can cannabis create better orgasms?

"Research showed cannabis led to longer, more satisfying orgasms." CBD can dramatically improve your sex life and CBD lubricants and cannabis can create better orgasms, reducing discomfort and pain, increasing libido and decreasing stress.…
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Can CBD result in more satisfying sex?

"OMG Yes" ... and less pain, less anxiety and more and better orgasms. Here are just a few "good news" stories of how CBD can result in more satisfying sex – from alleviating soreness to enhancing relationship satisfaction: Women reported…
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How to use CBD for sex?

There's a lot to know and size matters (dosage). Surveys show the majority of people (68%) have better sex when using Cannabis and CBD. But there's a lot to learn and anyone interested should get up to speed on how to use CBD for sex. And this…
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Can we have sex back on campus?

"Sex on campus doesn’t lead to babies, it leads to lawyers in polyester suits." – Alice Dreger OMG! In the academic world where sex education (for what it's worth – not much) has been folded into "gender studies," we have created a culture…
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Numbers tell the naked truth

The numbers don't lie. And they help keep you in the conversation – facts, insights, tips, links and funnies for partners to share, mull, muse, explore and discover. Women and stress – the hidden disease From TEDx Talk: The…
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“Outerplay” leads to out-of-this-world orgasms

and all without penetration! Penetration is really just one of the tools in the toolbox, so to speak, and "outerplay" brings a whole new meaning to foreplay. In fact, it goes well beyond foreplay and can lead you to out-of-this-world orgasms…
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A woman’s body is a must-read if …

you expect a happy-ever-after ending. If 'knowledge is king' then the king of lovers is a man who knows the deep, divine, inner workings of a woman's body and how to read her every need, desire and most intimate responses. "I was lucky this…
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Longer sex does not equal better sex!

Vaginas are durable but too long can ... cause long recovery times. "[Even though the] vagina is incredibly durable, it's important to know that if you want to go 'all night long,' you have a lube to take you through." – Marla Renee Stewart,…
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“Welcome to my vagina …”

In here, I make the rules!" Wow! Honest, healthy, sex talk – in advertising – that talks about women's wonderful sexual world. "Welcome to my vagina" is a great conversation starter. Girls, we have to openly and honestly talk about all…