After 3 years only 55% of women are sexually …

satisfied – and only 43% of men. Unacceptable. Unnecessary!

Plus, only about 1/3 of women and men say the sex is as passionate now as it was at the beginning.

• Women: 55% satisfied / 27% dissatisfied / 18% neutral
• Men: 43% satisfied / 41% dissatisfied / 16% neutral

“Sexual satisfaction and maintenance of passion were higher among people who had sex most frequently, received more oral sex, had more consistent orgasms, and incorporated more variety of sexual acts, mood setting, and sexual communication.” – Sexual Satisfaction National Study

This reality is worth talking about – with your partner! The problem is we are not very good at talking about sex (we just do it) and great sex requires great communications. We’ve posted an article from verywellmind, How to Have the Sex Talk With Your Partner that just might increase you sexual satisfaction – by talking about it.

Plus, see our book review of Use Your Mouth by sexologist Shamyra Howard. It will help you start the all important conversations.

“Good lovers are made, not born.”

We like to say: “You can’t become a great lover, if you don’t know WTF you’re talking about.”

Read article by Sheri Stritof at verywellmind (4 min) >>

Here’s the abstract from the research study that summarizes the findings >>

Read the Book Review >>

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