And loving yourself is about knowing what you need and how you want it!
Sex is like flying a plane … sort of. If ya’ don’t know how to fly the plane, ya’ ain’t gonna ‘get off’ the ground.
Whether you’re the sex pilot or co-pilot, your sex life ain’t ever gonna get off the ground if you don’t know how to ‘operate the instruments.’ And perhaps the most crucial instrument for ‘getting off’ the ground is the clitoris. That’s why @drlauriemintz wrote a whole book about it: Becoming Cliterate. Highly recommended (see our book review – 2 min).
“There is a large knowledge gap when it comes to the science of coming.”
Research shows that most of us don’t know WTF we’re doing when it comes to how to touch the clitoris:
- 18.4% of women reported that intercourse alone was sufficient for orgasm [Only 18% – Yikes!]
- 36.6% reported clitoral stimulation was necessary for orgasm during intercourse
- An additional 36% indicated that while clitoral stimulation was not needed their orgasms were better if their clitoris is stimulated
- 66% (2-out-3) want ‘up and down with medium pressure’
Do you know you what you most desire and need? Do you talk to your partner about your preferences? Do you explore options?
And to the guys in all of this … “Ya’ you the so-called lover and stud. Do you know your woman’s preferences and options? Are you totally cliterate? A Master in Cliterology?”
Most men, and too many of us clitoris owners, don’t really know WTF we’re doing around the clitoris. Or truly know what we need and deeply desire. Because it takes exploration, knowledge and experimentation. Which starts with loving ourselves, first.
Learn a little about the reality with this article and then dedciate yourself to be coming “cliterate” in all the wonderful facets of “sexperimentation.”
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