Don’t let the sun set on your post-menopausal sex life …

Mind-blowing sex can still be part of the ride! “Numerous post-menopausal women are not having sex, but want to." Mother nature did not envision women being sexually active after menopause and for many after-menopause sex can be uncomfortable…

Clitoris: Worshipping the pearl with cunnilingus …

How to give divine cunnilingus to the pearl of sexual pleasure. Like an oyster becomes a pearl so too can cunnilingus become a divine act of pleasure. You need only know how! And if he doesn't, you can guide your loving angel, your god of love,…

Couples who masturbate together, stay together!

Masturbation should be a liberal sexual pleasure policy, not a secret. "Mutual, random, shared masturbation beats having to tell your significant other you're horny." Like most successful endeavors, sexual pleasure comes from an open policy…
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Men fake orgasms too  – and surprise …

that can be a good thing! 28% of young, virile men have faked an orgasm We all know how much women fake orgasms (about 2/3) – too much – but we know very little about men faking. But they do. More than we realize. Whaaaat? Yep!  And…

Earth Day: Celebrate its magnificence and …

honor our natural connection to both earth and sex. "Ode to Earth and Sex." Earth Day is a wonderful day, not only to celebrate the need to contribute to the sustainability of our magnificent planet but also to be aware and conscious of…

Mastering cowgirl sex begins with …

mastering the cowgirl sex position. Real cowgirls – and all women aspiring to be great lovers – know there's more to the cowgirl sex position than just being along for the ride. Like a cowgirl's horse, her sex partner is very important…
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Vagina beware: Spin class can create spin crotch

and that can make more than your legs sore! If you're lovin' spin class but not the post-ride tingling in your pudendal nerve you need to know what's going on down there. "This overactivity in your pelvic floor can lead to symptoms that some…
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Are chairs great sex toys?

Can be if you know how ... and are careful. 78% of Americans over 18 own at least one sex toy as of 2022, increased from 65% in 2017. Better still, everybody owns some furniture and chairs can be great sex toys. If a room has a chair, it's…

Better sex: Fewer Kegels, more gluts.

"I'll drink to that." Upgrade your 'sexercise,' upgrade your sex. Kegel … Kegel … Kegel … what’s a woman to do? The best idea, do different sexercises. Because strengthening your Kegel muscles alone is not enough. If you want great…
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Want a full-body ‘brain crotch’ orgasm?

Learn how to touch your genital sensory, 'brain crotch' with your mind. "Sex neurons that fire together, wire together." – Dr. Nan Wise. We all have sex on the brain but few of us know how to have a full-body orgasm by focusing on our 'brain…

Talking sex means knowing …

WTF you're talking about! We're coining a new term: Fucking stupidus (compound noun): It refers to someone who fucks without knowing much about what the fuck they're doing, has little interest in learning the magnificence of sex, and doesn't…

Can the age gap negate the orgasm gap?

We've got research on both  ... and it's good news! Older men, younger woman. Older woman, younger man – WTF is the problem? The age gap is as natural as ... well, nature itself. And yet cultural criticism, and the cynics, never stop with…
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Office lust – and love – are inevitable!

We just have to learn how to "manage" them. Office-mates often become bed-mates. 1/3 of employees started relationships with colleagues during the pandemic ... who says Zoom doesn't connect us? Proximity – physical, emotional, intellectual…

No, opposites don’t attract and …

every dating app knows it. Get used to it! It's just not true that we want to meet someone "different." The evidence is clear: "Opposites repel." Deeply ingrained in our psyche and genetic make up is a need to be with someone we trust and…

What’s your sex mindset?

It could be killing your sex life ... and your relationships? Anytime is a good time to rethink how your mindset impacts your sex life. Because it does. Significantly! "Dump him ... Fuck me once, shame on you; fuck me twice, shame on me."…