Here are six favorites from a professional sex writer (she’s tested dozens). 40% of Americans over 18 have spent over $100 on sex toys in the last 12 months. – BedBible.com But before you spend you might want to hear what some of the experts have to recommend. “I showed my mom that I’d gotten […]
liberated woman doesn’t mean your sexually liberated. Good interview. Great book. A must-read! “Modern heterosexual dating culture appears to be an emotional meat grinder whose miseries and degradations can’t be solved by ever more elaborate rituals of consent.” WTF is wrong? Are we too early in Darwin’s evolutionary journey to expect genetic changes that would […]
Watch. Learn. And get off! Back due to popular demand (posted previously). No touch, hands-off-your-vulva orgasms can be a wonderful part of Tantra sex and Tantra teacher Christina says it’s about “rocking your pelvis forward and awaking your sexual energy.” Watch her do it. Here’s a 3-minute video with Christina demonstrating her no touch orgasm. […]
or a thumbs down? 👎🏼 Mirror, mirror on the wall, tell me I use them all. Most women (and men) do not intentionally and skillfully use their magnificent 5 senses during sex – before, during and after. And we don’t know what we’re missing. Being in touch with all five senses increases relaxation, extends foreplay […]
There are scientific reasons for good skin after orgasms! “During sexual activity and especially after orgasm, your body releases serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin, and prolactin.” – Dr. Shirley Chi After-glow is real and it can last way beyond the after-flow, a cuddle and a good-night’s sleep. In 2 minutes learn the important connection between more beautiful […]
Writers share their most memorable sex of the year! “Some are funny, some are delicate, some are raunchy, some are sweet and some are silly, but they are all, on some level, very serious.” – Kayla Kibbe @kay_kibbe is one of our fave sex writers and she asked five of her colleagues, contributors to InsideHook, […]
there are 5 positions that can give your sex life a real boost! [this isn’t one of them – maybe for cunnilingus?] Certain poses can strengthen muscles and improve flexibility in ways that are particularly useful for better sex. Just take a quick look at these photos – the Bridge, the Cat/Cow, the Prasarita. Even […]
Honoring the penis is the height of mindful sex! Ladies, welcome to Lingam massage. He will never forget you! Lingam is the Sanskirt word for penis … ‘wand of light.’ This 8 minute video will show you how to truly “know,” explore and discover his penis while inside you. It will blow your mind, literally […]
If you don’t know what it is, learn. If you haven’t given one, learn how! Earlier this week we created a post about giving great hand jobs and it prompted one of our followers to suggest a Lingam massage. Of course … so here it is. Lingam is the Sanskirt word for penis … ‘wand […]
Hiding in plain sight: Between. Beside. On. Next to. Discover in 3 minutes what can give you endless hours of pleasure. Move on from the clitoral tip, nipples and ears and explore the largest sex organ of all, the skin – and all its erogenous zones. They are hiding in plain sight … between, bedside, […]
Learn “heavenly” variations and doggie sex can be your ‘new best friend!’ The old cliche that ‘a dog is a man’s best friend’ might still be hanging around but for women, knowing variations on doggie sex (other than ‘ass-up-face-down’) can be their best friend (his too). We’ve posted an excellent article from Bad Girls Bible […]
Maybe no more than “vagina inches?” Why do women overestimate penis size? The internet is overflowing with information, facts and factoids on penis size and one phenomenon is called “girl inches.” This refers to women overestimating the size of penises – by, on average, a couple of inches. “Tens of thousands of penises have been […]
It’s negotiable! If two First Ladies and two Presidents can negotiate a loving, no-sex relationship then there has to be hope for all the other long-term relationships facing the “doom” of no sex. “Right up there with food and water, sex is a basic human need and one that certainly doesn’t disappear with age.” We […]
It’s not what you think – and it’s quite often”okay.” Sometimes you simply don’t want to want sex. And that’s ok! Sexual desire is complicated and there are many reasons our sexual desire declines. And “ageing doesn’t erase sexual desire or arousal” (read that again)! But it doesn’t have to be a crisis for either […]
knowing orgasmic positions and having a special vibrator are musts! Only 31% of women orgasm from penetration alone. This one statistic is perhaps the most important in every woman’s sex life – unless she owns one of those magical, super-sensitive, well-lubricated, multi-orgasmic vaginas. For all the rest, there are at least two things that are […]
Mind-blowing sex can still be part of the ride! “Numerous post-menopausal women are not having sex, but want to.” Mother nature did not envision women being sexually active after menopause and for many after-menopause sex can be uncomfortable with thinner, drier vaginal tissue, less natural lubrication, and painful penetration. But help is close at hand […]
How to give divine cunnilingus to the pearl of sexual pleasure. Like an oyster becomes a pearl so too can cunnilingus become a divine act of pleasure. You need only know how! And if he doesn’t, you can guide your loving angel, your god of love, your master of pleasure. If he learns how to […]
Masturbation should be a liberal sexual pleasure policy, not a secret. “Mutual, random, shared masturbation beats having to tell your significant other you’re horny.” Like most successful endeavors, sexual pleasure comes from an open policy and a good plan. And at the top of the list should be mutually figuring out how to have a […]
that can be a good thing! 28% of young, virile men have faked an orgasm We all know how much women fake orgasms (about 2/3) – too much – but we know very little about men faking. But they do. More than we realize. Whaaaat? Yep! And this can be a good thing! There is […]
honor our natural connection to both earth and sex. “Ode to Earth and Sex.” Earth Day is a wonderful day, not only to celebrate the need to contribute to the sustainability of our magnificent planet but also to be aware and conscious of our good fortune to be here on what Carl Sagan called, “the […]
mastering the cowgirl sex position. Real cowgirls – and all women aspiring to be great lovers – know there’s more to the cowgirl sex position than just being along for the ride. Like a cowgirl’s horse, her sex partner is very important to her. His sexual pleasure and well-being is her ultimate consideration (also read […]
and that can make more than your legs sore! If you’re lovin’ spin class but not the post-ride tingling in your pudendal nerve you need to know what’s going on down there. “This overactivity in your pelvic floor can lead to symptoms that some people don’t understand are warning signs.” – Kate Roddy, pelvic phsiotherapist […]
Can be if you know how … and are careful. 78% of Americans over 18 own at least one sex toy as of 2022, increased from 65% in 2017. Better still, everybody owns some furniture and chairs can be great sex toys. If a room has a chair, it’s a sex playroom. We’ve posted a […]
“I’ll drink to that.” Upgrade your ‘sexercise,’ upgrade your sex. Kegel … Kegel … Kegel … what’s a woman to do? The best idea, do different sexercises. Because strengthening your Kegel muscles alone is not enough. If you want great sex and stronger orgasms you want your gluts, hips and abs to be good sexshape. […]
Learn how to touch your genital sensory, ‘brain crotch’ with your mind. “Sex neurons that fire together, wire together.” – Dr. Nan Wise. We all have sex on the brain but few of us know how to have a full-body orgasm by focusing on our ‘brain crotch’ – our genital sensory cortex that can be […]
WTF you’re talking about! We’re coining a new term: Fucking stupidus (compound noun): It refers to someone who fucks without knowing much about what the fuck they’re doing, has little interest in learning the magnificence of sex, and doesn’t know enough to be confident in talking sex. Girls this is on us! Over half of […]
We’ve got research on both … and it’s good news! Older men, younger woman. Older woman, younger man – WTF is the problem? The age gap is as natural as … well, nature itself. And yet cultural criticism, and the cynics, never stop with the name calling: ‘sugar daddy’, ‘gold-digger,’ ‘cougars,’ ‘toyboys, ‘MILF.’ WTF is […]
We just have to learn how to “manage” them. Office-mates often become bed-mates. 1/3 of employees started relationships with colleagues during the pandemic … who says Zoom doesn’t connect us? Proximity – physical, emotional, intellectual – is a driving force in all of us and when combined with shared interests, problems, creativity, it can be […]
every dating app knows it. Get used to it! It’s just not true that we want to meet someone “different.” The evidence is clear: “Opposites repel.” Deeply ingrained in our psyche and genetic make up is a need to be with someone we trust and trust is rooted in similarities, not differences. We want to […]
It could be killing your sex life … and your relationships? Anytime is a good time to rethink how your mindset impacts your sex life. Because it does. Significantly! “Dump him … Fuck me once, shame on you; fuck me twice, shame on me.” – Samantha in Sex and the City Apparently, Samantha said this […]
