“Frottage sex” – no penetration, lots of pleasure. Don’t say no until …

You know how hot it can be! Frottage: From the French word frott, which means "rub"— it's fun to say and fun to do. Sure, we all did a fair share of rubbing as teens – bumping and grinding while not knowing fuck all about sex. But it's…

Astrology and sex can be a Titanic disaster

"What's your sign?" might be a good pick up line but that's about all it is! "Fact: Leos Are Amazing in Bed." – Cosmo article (see post) In the scene from the movie Titanic, Kate Winslet's Leo might have provided steamy sex but it's no indication…

Ya’ want tits with those fries?

Welcome to the horny world of fast food nudes! If you're horny and hungry there are places you can satisfy both urges. Kind of 'one-stop sex [and food] shopping.' Across various corners of the adult internet, people are partaking in the glory…

“69” + imagination = ??? Do the math, get an A+

If you don't like "69ing" you're doing it wrong! You don't have to be a mathematician to know how to add great 69 to your sex life. It doesn't have to only be the old boring, gotta try it sometime, sex act. There is much to sexplore! If…

Road head is no joke …

it's an accident about to happen ... to cum. And quite unsatisfying. Just because Leonardo Di Caprio gets road head in a Ferrari in the opening of The Wolf of Wall Street, doesn't mean it's any good (they use stunt people in movies, ya' know).…

Learn the magic of sex & CBD – from the horse’s mouth …

Get the straight goods – from the horse's mouth, so to speak. Okay, okay ... the horse doesn't know anything about CBD (sex she knows), but we know a cowgirl and cowboy who know a helluva lot about CBD and cannabis. And if you want to hear…

Everybody’s traveling to Colorado …

to fully enjoy the "dawn of weed tourism" – pets too! "50% of all Millennials said that access to legal recreational cannabis was important when choosing a vacation destination and 43% said they’ve already chosen destinations because cannabis…

Masturbating isn’t cheating, it’s self-love

and the longest sexual relationship of your life! "You cannot cheat on your partner with yourself." Of all the stupid taboos we have to live with, this is one of the stupidest. Masturbation is as natural as ... breathing and it has been around…

WTF … no touch orgasms?

Watch. Learn. And get off! Back due to popular demand (posted previously). No touch, hands-off-your-vulva orgasms can be a wonderful part of Tantra sex and Tantra teacher Christina says it's about "rocking your pelvis forward and awaking…

Massage his penis for better vaginal orgasms

Honoring the penis is the height of mindful sex! Ladies, welcome to Lingam massage. He will never forget you! Lingam is the Sanskirt word for penis ... 'wand of light.' This 8 minute video will show you how to truly "know," explore and discover…
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His penis will love a Lingam massage

If you don't know what it is, learn. If you haven't given one, learn how! Earlier this week we created a post about giving great hand jobs and it prompted one of our followers to suggest a Lingam massage. Of course ... so here it is. Lingam…

How “Doggie” can be a girl’s best friend.

Learn "heavenly" variations and doggie sex can be your 'new best friend!' The old cliche that 'a dog is a man's best friend' might still be hanging around but for women, knowing variations on doggie sex (other than 'ass-up-face-down') can be…

The penis alone is not enough …

knowing orgasmic positions and having a special vibrator are musts! Only 31% of women orgasm from penetration alone. This one statistic is perhaps the most important in every woman's sex life – unless she owns one of those magical, super-sensitive,…

Couples who masturbate together, stay together!

Masturbation should be a liberal sexual pleasure policy, not a secret. "Mutual, random, shared masturbation beats having to tell your significant other you're horny." Like most successful endeavors, sexual pleasure comes from an open policy…
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Men fake orgasms too  – and surprise …

that can be a good thing! 28% of young, virile men have faked an orgasm We all know how much women fake orgasms (about 2/3) – too much – but we know very little about men faking. But they do. More than we realize. Whaaaat? Yep!  And…

Mastering cowgirl sex begins with …

mastering the cowgirl sex position. Real cowgirls – and all women aspiring to be great lovers – know there's more to the cowgirl sex position than just being along for the ride. Like a cowgirl's horse, her sex partner is very important…
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Want a full-body ‘brain crotch’ orgasm?

Learn how to touch your genital sensory, 'brain crotch' with your mind. "Sex neurons that fire together, wire together." – Dr. Nan Wise. We all have sex on the brain but few of us know how to have a full-body orgasm by focusing on our 'brain…

Netflix: “Principles of Pleasure” … must-watch!

If you want to "up" your sex pleasure this is a 3 episode binge-worthy series! (1 min – trailer 1:22) "Sex, joy and modern science converge in this eye-opening series that celebrates the complex world of women's pleasure — and puts stubborn…
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“One-penis policy” is a problem in threesomes

Most couples are looking for another woman, not another man. The "one penis policy" in a sexual relationship is rooted in misogyny and homophobia. Because men feel threatened. Very sad. But very real. Perhaps there was some deep-seated insecurity…

Soaking up sex … in the tub

Rule #1: Practice safe sex Forget what you see in the movies or read in erotic books, bath tub sex – great bath tub sex – requires 3 things: A sexy imagination Positional flexibility Safety Soaking in a tub is a fabulous indulgence…
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Admit it: “I don’t know how to give a great hand job …’

And you're not alone, most women don't. We're talking great, not average. But not to worry. A little bit of knowledge, a little bit of communications (before, during and after) and a little bit of practice ... and Voilà! You'll be a hands-down…

What does a vagina taste like? Short answer …

A vagina "A healthy vulva tastes like a healthy vulva." Everyone is different and if it's healthy it's deliciously perfect. And it changes all the time. It might be sweet or sour, metallic or bitter, salty or sharp. It might even have faint…
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Does pineapple make cum taste better?

Better question: Does it matter? "Honey, they don't call it a job for nothing."– Samantha, Sex and the City Regardless of where you stand (or sit or kneel) on the merits of blowjobs and whether to swallow or spit, there's a question about…

Last Tango in Paris – 50 years later!

The controversy over the butter-rape scene remains. (3 min) Non-consensual sex is always rape. Whether it's depicted in an erotic and infamous movie like Last Tango in Paris (1972) or more recently in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (2011)…
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Cunnilingus ‘on the side’ … deliciously orgasmic!

The "Kivin Cunnilingus Method" might be the tastiest orgasm ever. Remember in the movie Harry Met Sally (see clip below) when the older woman in the restaurant who's watching Sally fake an orgasm said, "I'll have what she's having." Well, there's…

‘Senior sex’ – we all get there and …

if we're willing to learn, it can be as "good as it gets!" Okay, okay ... the Sex in the City girls aren't there yet, but they're getting there – and probably as curious and concerned as any women. Sex is a lifelong journey – should…
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Stop chasing the orgasm …

try sex mediation [one woman's story].   Irina Gonzalez, freelance writer for Glamour, wrote an intriguing story of her search for a better sex life through meditation. In her article (4 min read), she tells her story of sexual frustration,…

Mother Nature loves sex and …

she can fix low libido, naturally! Sex is good for our health and when we live more naturally we live better. This means we should satisfy our sexual needs and desires the same way we treat hunger and thirst – as a necessity! We know there…

40% of women do not create enough natural lubrication!

It's one of 8 reasons you're not orgasming. First figure out why you're not creating enough natural lubrication. It can be anything from too much stress to too little foreplay. Or medication. Or the wrong lubricant. We've posted an article,…
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TEDx TALK: “Sex is becoming an endangered species

and we've turned our back on it. TEDx Talk (11 min) Wow! This is a must-watch sex talk. It's takes less time to watch than the average time it takes a woman to reach orgasm (12 min). And this could lead you to orgasmic heights you've never…