WTF … no touch orgasms?

Watch. Learn. And get off! Back due to popular demand (posted previously). No touch, hands-off-your-vulva orgasms can be a wonderful part of Tantra sex and Tantra teacher Christina says it's about "rocking your pelvis forward and awaking…

Massage his penis for better vaginal orgasms

Honoring the penis is the height of mindful sex! Ladies, welcome to Lingam massage. He will never forget you! Lingam is the Sanskirt word for penis ... 'wand of light.' This 8 minute video will show you how to truly "know," explore and discover…
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His penis will love a Lingam massage

If you don't know what it is, learn. If you haven't given one, learn how! Earlier this week we created a post about giving great hand jobs and it prompted one of our followers to suggest a Lingam massage. Of course ... so here it is. Lingam…

How “Doggie” can be a girl’s best friend.

Learn "heavenly" variations and doggie sex can be your 'new best friend!' The old cliche that 'a dog is a man's best friend' might still be hanging around but for women, knowing variations on doggie sex (other than 'ass-up-face-down') can be…

The penis alone is not enough …

knowing orgasmic positions and having a special vibrator are musts! Only 31% of women orgasm from penetration alone. This one statistic is perhaps the most important in every woman's sex life – unless she owns one of those magical, super-sensitive,…

Couples who masturbate together, stay together!

Masturbation should be a liberal sexual pleasure policy, not a secret. "Mutual, random, shared masturbation beats having to tell your significant other you're horny." Like most successful endeavors, sexual pleasure comes from an open policy…
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Men fake orgasms too  – and surprise …

that can be a good thing! 28% of young, virile men have faked an orgasm We all know how much women fake orgasms (about 2/3) – too much – but we know very little about men faking. But they do. More than we realize. Whaaaat? Yep!  And…

Mastering cowgirl sex begins with …

mastering the cowgirl sex position. Real cowgirls – and all women aspiring to be great lovers – know there's more to the cowgirl sex position than just being along for the ride. Like a cowgirl's horse, her sex partner is very important…
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Want a full-body ‘brain crotch’ orgasm?

Learn how to touch your genital sensory, 'brain crotch' with your mind. "Sex neurons that fire together, wire together." – Dr. Nan Wise. We all have sex on the brain but few of us know how to have a full-body orgasm by focusing on our 'brain…

Netflix: “Principles of Pleasure” … must-watch!

If you want to "up" your sex pleasure this is a 3 episode binge-worthy series! (1 min – trailer 1:22) "Sex, joy and modern science converge in this eye-opening series that celebrates the complex world of women's pleasure — and puts stubborn…
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“One-penis policy” is a problem in threesomes

Most couples are looking for another woman, not another man. The "one penis policy" in a sexual relationship is rooted in misogyny and homophobia. Because men feel threatened. Very sad. But very real. Perhaps there was some deep-seated insecurity…

Soaking up sex … in the tub

Rule #1: Practice safe sex Forget what you see in the movies or read in erotic books, bath tub sex – great bath tub sex – requires 3 things: A sexy imagination Positional flexibility Safety Soaking in a tub is a fabulous indulgence…
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Admit it: “I don’t know how to give a great hand job …’

And you're not alone, most women don't. We're talking great, not average. But not to worry. A little bit of knowledge, a little bit of communications (before, during and after) and a little bit of practice ... and Voilà! You'll be a hands-down…

What does a vagina taste like? Short answer …

A vagina "A healthy vulva tastes like a healthy vulva." Everyone is different and if it's healthy it's deliciously perfect. And it changes all the time. It might be sweet or sour, metallic or bitter, salty or sharp. It might even have faint…
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Does pineapple make cum taste better?

Better question: Does it matter? "Honey, they don't call it a job for nothing."– Samantha, Sex and the City Regardless of where you stand (or sit or kneel) on the merits of blowjobs and whether to swallow or spit, there's a question about…

Last Tango in Paris – 50 years later!

The controversy over the butter-rape scene remains. (3 min) Non-consensual sex is always rape. Whether it's depicted in an erotic and infamous movie like Last Tango in Paris (1972) or more recently in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (2011)…
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Cunnilingus ‘on the side’ … deliciously orgasmic!

The "Kivin Cunnilingus Method" might be the tastiest orgasm ever. Remember in the movie Harry Met Sally (see clip below) when the older woman in the restaurant who's watching Sally fake an orgasm said, "I'll have what she's having." Well, there's…

‘Senior sex’ – we all get there and …

if we're willing to learn, it can be as "good as it gets!" Okay, okay ... the Sex in the City girls aren't there yet, but they're getting there – and probably as curious and concerned as any women. Sex is a lifelong journey – should…
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Stop chasing the orgasm …

try sex mediation [one woman's story].   Irina Gonzalez, freelance writer for Glamour, wrote an intriguing story of her search for a better sex life through meditation. In her article (4 min read), she tells her story of sexual frustration,…

Mother Nature loves sex and …

she can fix low libido, naturally! Sex is good for our health and when we live more naturally we live better. This means we should satisfy our sexual needs and desires the same way we treat hunger and thirst – as a necessity! We know there…

40% of women do not create enough natural lubrication!

It's one of 8 reasons you're not orgasming. First figure out why you're not creating enough natural lubrication. It can be anything from too much stress to too little foreplay. Or medication. Or the wrong lubricant. We've posted an article,…
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TEDx TALK: “Sex is becoming an endangered species

and we've turned our back on it. TEDx Talk (11 min) Wow! This is a must-watch sex talk. It's takes less time to watch than the average time it takes a woman to reach orgasm (12 min). And this could lead you to orgasmic heights you've never…

Clitoral touching: Ya’ don’t know what ya’ don’t know!

And loving yourself is about knowing what you need and how you want it! Sex is like flying a plane ... sort of. If ya' don't know how to fly the plane, ya' ain't gonna 'get off' the ground. Whether you're the sex pilot or co-pilot, your…
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What? No touch orgasms?

Yep! Couple of Tantra breaths and you're off! No touch, hands-off-your-vulva orgasms can be a wonderful part of Tantra sex and Tantra teacher Christina says it's about "rocking your pelvis forward and awaking your sexual energy." Watch her…
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Tantric sex can be a gateway to great sex [podcast]

This podcast from "The Quick & The Dirty," with three sexually with-it women, provides wonderful insights into Tantric sex. And the 3,000-year-old philosophy and practices of Tantra could unlock a whole new world in your world of sex. "Our…
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Tantric sex 101 …

a quickie in tantric sex   Tantra in Sanskrit means "woven together" and the ultimate in sex is the union of two into one. "Tantra teaches slow, non-orgasmic sexual intercourse." Here's a short article (2 min) from Best Health, Tell…
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Ladies, need stress relief? Forget the gym, yoga, pilates, head for the bedroom

Release tension with these five relaxing, natural, stress-relieving sex positions Stress is natural, so is sex, and they are often antithetical to each other. Too much stress, too little sex, especially good sex. And yet, done right, sex can…
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Our sex problems are not in the bedroom …

they are in our head, awaiting the quiet power of sexual and loving mindfulness. Mindfulness is ... quieting and steadying the mind; becoming aware of bodily sensations; and learning how we hang on, how to let go, and how to channel meditative…
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Erotic massage: Calm the mind, arouse the body

The gift of touch not only releases the "love hormone," it signals trust and affection, strengthening the bond between partners. And knowing how to master an erotic massage is a wonderful way to emotionally and physical connect. An erotic…
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The “Upward-Facing Dog” can be …

a great position in your 'fucking-workout' routine. (6 min) Yogic sexuality is the wonderful combination of yoga and sex ... "hot yoga." Sexual yoga is like traditional yoga and dates back thousands of years and focuses on combining breath,…