Netflix: “Principles of Pleasure” … must-watch!

If you want to "up" your sex pleasure this is a 3 episode binge-worthy series! (1 min – trailer 1:22) "Sex, joy and modern science converge in this eye-opening series that celebrates the complex world of women's pleasure — and puts stubborn…

Last Tango in Paris – 50 years later!

The controversy over the butter-rape scene remains. (3 min) Non-consensual sex is always rape. Whether it's depicted in an erotic and infamous movie like Last Tango in Paris (1972) or more recently in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (2011)…
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Fake. Fake. Fake.

Sex and the City + And Just Like That are Dangerous to Women's Sex. The original Sex and the City was bad enough but now we have to filter our way through the sequel, And Just Like That to avoid getting caught up (again) in the twisted shadows…
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Goopy sex wisdom or woo-woo?

Is Gwyneth Paltrow's new Netflix show destined to be another 'vagina steaming' disaster? After the gynecological outrage over her debunked 'vaginal steaming' practice and her false 'yoni egg' claims, we women might want to take her advice with…

“Soaking Sex” and “Jump Hump” sex …

as only Mormon students (far from morons) can do it! (Two articles (1-2 min); 3 min video; and a Tik Tok demonstration). OMG! Leave it to the hypocrisy of religion to inspire students to invent "soaking sex" and "jump hump" sex. Ingenious! Sex…
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The Secrets of Sexually Woke [a podcast]

If you do not have time to read Dr. Susan's book Sexually Woke: Awaken the Secrets to Your Best Sex Life in Midlife & Beyond then 55 minutes of your time is well invested listening to her podcast, which captures the essence of her most powerful…
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Sex toys can be sex-after-40’s best friend …

but shopping for them can be a bit overwhelming. (a fascinating 7 minute shopping guide) "Not only do you have to figure out what everything does, you also have to figure out if it aligns with how you like it to be done." Browse to your hearts…
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Six tips for the best sex of your life …

after 50. Hell, after 40. "Orgasm is not an event, it’s a process, and it starts and finishes with connection" – Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith Some perspicacious woman once said, "Until you are forty, it's all practice." Nowhere is that more…
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Let the magic of after-40 sex begin …

with an awakening that can be "magical." (4 min) "We have spent our whole adult lives trying to give ourselves to something outside of ourselves." – Debbi Serafinchon In just 4 minutes this article just might give you some insight as to…
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One thing better after 40 is … sex

Five things that make the sex at age 40 better than anytime before. (6 min) [Photo: Cary Grant and Eva Marie Saint were beautifully over 40 in North by Northwest - no sex scenes back then but bet they had it] "Sex is dramatically better…
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The naughty, sexy facts on women over forty.

And those in their 50s and 60s aren't far behind. This fact-filled article (quick 2 min read) from Women's Weekly, Australia, is not only an eye-opener, but could open up the sex lives of millions of women around the world as Australian women…
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Why is “sex ed” all about sex, lies and more lies?

"I’m shocked that we’re still not admitting to young people that a lot of the reasons we have sex is because it feels really, really good.” – Andrea Barrica, CEO, O.school. Why do we lie to teens about sex? Not just fibs. But downright,…
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Movie sex is fake, fake, fake …

but we try and live up to it all the time. That's a mistake! (1 min read) Sex that isn't you is ... well, not you, not real, and not good enough. And you know what they say, "Good enough, isn't!" Movie romance, movie love, movie sex can…
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Fake, fake fake, fake …

What's the difference between Gwyneth Paltrow and Julia Louis-Dreyfus? Julia calls something fake when it's fake; Gwyneth calls something real when it's fake. Remember the Seinfeld episode when Elaine and Jerry were talking about sex and…
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Canadian vaginas are once again safer – except from ignorance

Wow! Do we really need the government to protect women's vaginas? It appears so. Canada’s public health department has banned the sale of toxic, herbal suppositories sold as “self-love inspired womb care for every woman" to shield women…
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Let’s call a spade a spade and a vagina a vagina – “Com’on!”

WTF is wrong with us? As owners of vaginas and penises – since time began – when are we going to grow up and be honest, open, comfortable and smarter than fifth-graders (who also own vaginas and penises)? What's the difference between…
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Vagina alert: Tell Gwyneth Paltrow to fuck off …

Vagina steaming is dangerous, unnecessary, unproven and ... did we mention stupid. A Canadian woman received second-degree burns to her vagina and had to delay reconstructive surgery until she healed – all because some damn celebrity with…
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WTF is this goop?

Gwyneth Paltrow is fucking around with women's vaginas and yet she doesn't know what the fuck she's talking about. She promotes vaginal steaming and inserting "jade and rose quartz eggs" in your vagina resulting in lawsuits and burned vaginas.…
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Is Goop really just goop?

Amanda Mull writes in The Atlantic a tale of two lifestyles, exposing for all to see that shopping at Goop promises you both 'the best of times and the worst of times.' – if you can afford it "I spent $1,279 of The Atlantic’s money on creams,…
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Buttocks only, or full frontal?

Intimacy coordinators come to Hollywood. Are sex scenes in Hollywood films just stunts, and like all stunts, require a sex stunt coordinator? That's seems to be where sex scenes are at in Hollywood, at least the explicit stuff. The MeToo movement…
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Sophie Turner Calls ‘Game of Thrones’ Her “Sex Education” … well, you learn where you can

Turner, who plays Sansa Stark on Game of Thrones, sat down with the Times' magazine and got very real about coming of age on the hit show's set. Specifically, she says the show's explicit (and often problematic) sex scenes were her own version…
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Vaginal steaming? WTF is that?

Doctors say there's no evidence it works—and it may even be dangerous. But Gwyneth Paltrow of Goop fame says it's a good thing, so millions are gettin' steamy. But there's no evidence it makes a damn bit of difference. So vagina owners beware:…
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Bad sex in fiction – wins a prize?

As ardent writers of sex in fiction, we carefully note this Literary Review of Annual Bad Sex in Fiction awards. It's the worst lines in fiction under the criteria of 'poorly written, perfunctory or redundant passages of sexual description'.…
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The Ultimate Ranking of ‘Game of Thrones’ Sex Scenes

Thanks to HBO's "the more naked people, the better" policy, Game of Thrones explored some boundary-pushing sex scenes—and not all of them are without controversy. But the show's *best* sex scenes aren't the ones that are simply controversial.…