“Frottage sex” – no penetration, lots of pleasure. Don’t say no until …

You know how hot it can be! Frottage: From the French word frott, which means "rub"— it's fun to say and fun to do. Sure, we all did a fair share of rubbing as teens – bumping and grinding while not knowing fuck all about sex. But it's…

WTF … no touch orgasms?

Watch. Learn. And get off! Back due to popular demand (posted previously). No touch, hands-off-your-vulva orgasms can be a wonderful part of Tantra sex and Tantra teacher Christina says it's about "rocking your pelvis forward and awaking…
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Stop chasing the orgasm …

try sex mediation [one woman's story].   Irina Gonzalez, freelance writer for Glamour, wrote an intriguing story of her search for a better sex life through meditation. In her article (4 min read), she tells her story of sexual frustration,…

40% of women do not create enough natural lubrication!

It's one of 8 reasons you're not orgasming. First figure out why you're not creating enough natural lubrication. It can be anything from too much stress to too little foreplay. Or medication. Or the wrong lubricant. We've posted an article,…

Clitoral touching: Ya’ don’t know what ya’ don’t know!

And loving yourself is about knowing what you need and how you want it! Sex is like flying a plane ... sort of. If ya' don't know how to fly the plane, ya' ain't gonna 'get off' the ground. Whether you're the sex pilot or co-pilot, your…
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Tantric sex 101 …

a quickie in tantric sex   Tantra in Sanskrit means "woven together" and the ultimate in sex is the union of two into one. "Tantra teaches slow, non-orgasmic sexual intercourse." Here's a short article (2 min) from Best Health, Tell…

How wired are women for great sex?

The easy answer: It's complicated. (A must-read article – 25 minutes of incredibly worthwhile insight into female orgasms) The title of this excellent article from Walrus magazine (great magazine) by @sarahbarmak is, Building a Better…
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‘Sex without sex’ can include lots of orgasms

Yes, sex without sex can be beautifully intimate! There are many ways to enjoy intimacy with a partner without having intercourse and the exploration and discovery can be orgasmic – literally! "Sex without sex offers a vast and exciting…

Can orgasms help prevent Covid? Maybe!

Orgasms have many health benefits, including boosting our immune system. Yes, orgasms protect us from colds and flus and just might help with Covid. Whether you're vaccinated or not, get to work on increasing your orgasms and improving your…

Guys don’t understand female orgasms!

And many don't even try to get better. Men's orgasms are a sprint, women's a marathon. We don't know how George Clooney is in bed (Yeah, yeah ... but fantasies don't count) but we do know most men don't know much about the female orgasm and…

91% of women like receiving oral sex

What's not to like? Apparently only 9% of women don't like something about cunnilingus. Bad Girl's Bible did a survey of 1,058 women and the findings offer great insights into women's world of oral sex. As part of our research, we also…
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Was pandemic a sex and CBD ‘field of dreams?’

Sex and cannabis became a pleasure-inducing pairing during the pandemic At the height of the pandemic (summer 2020) a Playboy survey found "daily cannabis consumption increased and daily alcohol consumption decreased while people sheltered…
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We’ve been lied to about women’s sexuality …

and the truth is very different. It's quite normal, very exciting and easily understood. So learn all about it – read this New York Times bestseller It's amazing what honesty and science can do for our understanding. Enough knowledge and…
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Can cannabis create better orgasms?

"Research showed cannabis led to longer, more satisfying orgasms." CBD can dramatically improve your sex life and CBD lubricants and cannabis can create better orgasms, reducing discomfort and pain, increasing libido and decreasing stress.…
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Can CBD result in more satisfying sex?

"OMG Yes" ... and less pain, less anxiety and more and better orgasms. Here are just a few "good news" stories of how CBD can result in more satisfying sex – from alleviating soreness to enhancing relationship satisfaction: Women reported…
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“Outerplay” leads to out-of-this-world orgasms

and all without penetration! Penetration is really just one of the tools in the toolbox, so to speak, and "outerplay" brings a whole new meaning to foreplay. In fact, it goes well beyond foreplay and can lead you to out-of-this-world orgasms…
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A woman’s body is a must-read if …

you expect a happy-ever-after ending. If 'knowledge is king' then the king of lovers is a man who knows the deep, divine, inner workings of a woman's body and how to read her every need, desire and most intimate responses. "I was lucky this…
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Longer sex does not equal better sex!

Vaginas are durable but too long can ... cause long recovery times. "[Even though the] vagina is incredibly durable, it's important to know that if you want to go 'all night long,' you have a lube to take you through." – Marla Renee Stewart,…
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“Welcome to my vagina …”

In here, I make the rules!" Wow! Honest, healthy, sex talk – in advertising – that talks about women's wonderful sexual world. "Welcome to my vagina" is a great conversation starter. Girls, we have to openly and honestly talk about all…
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Sex is like “dancing with the stars” if …

you have a partner who can dance to the rhythm of sex. Hopefully your sex has had 30 great seasons like the American TV series, Dancing with the Stars. And if it hasn't, there's a good chance it's because of a lack of sexual rhythm – yes,…
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5 reasons women AND men fake orgasms.

"In my early 20s, I just wasn’t that interested in sex." – Lisa Hawkins Maybe it starts early? Here's a glimpse inside Lisa Hawkins's take on faking. Since not being "interested in sex," she has been a coach and counselor for 26 years…
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Why men are faking orgasms too and …

why they shouldn't perpetrate sex fraud. "Men are faking orgasms around 16 percent of the time." – Survey Fake orgasms are like a virus and we all need a large dose – a vaccination in the form of serious conversation – to increase our…
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100 million fake orgasms everyday is …

the height of dishonesty, dissatisfaction and disillusionment! (2 min) "Two in three women fail to climax during every sex session." Worse, this number raises a million dollar question: What the fuck are we doing? Because we sure as hell…
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Women … stop the fiction.

Don't choke off your orgasms! "Entire sectors of women do not even know the vast capacity for their body." – Lotus Indigo Shakti Kruse Here is an excellent article (by a guy no less), that slams the cultural shame and fiction that society…
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Why do women sexually disrespect and …

deny their sexual needs, and their partner's? (4 min) "57.1% of women want their partner to feel successful." This fake orgasm contagion is only going to get solved if we women resolve to change our nurturing, submissive, disrespectful treatment…
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National Orgasm Day for women is …

no holiday from orgasms. That can happen any day of the year. (1 min) Yes, there really is a National Orgasm Day (July 31 every year) and it's celebrated around the world. It might help with awareness of the problem but not sure how much…
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What Is The Orgasm Gap?

More women experience the reality of the 'orgasm gap' than know what the scientifically coined phrase means. But we should all understand it and with 'National Orgasm Day' being celebrated on July 31st women everywhere should celebrate orgasms…
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In honor of masturbation, we honor …

the passing of renowned 'solo sex' advocate, pro-sex feminist, sex educator Betty Dodson (1929-2020) (2 min) “A real orgasm is something that no matter where it comes from, a woman takes for herself.” – Betty Dodson Betty Dodson…
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Is sex without an orgasm …

good sex or failed sex? (4 min article) "Arching in bliss ... higher and higher ... and then ... nothing." It's not the "nothing" that is wrong, it's the expectation that's wrong. Expecting an orgasm and thinking an orgasm is "imperative"…
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Sex has no finish line and …

it's not a test. So why not be a better student? "We have sex like Kenyan marathon runners." – Olivia Wilde Olivia Wilde (born Olivia Cockburn) is an actress not a marathon runner so not sure if she knows that any runner that can complete…