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Lust is our inner lioness …

and she needs to be released – constantly! (Great article) [Lust is] "Owning that little kitty inside who wants to be a lioness, releasing her and listening for the soft purr to turn into a fierce, resounding roar." – Anne Clendening This…
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The naughty, sexy facts on women over forty.

And those in their 50s and 60s aren't far behind. This fact-filled article (quick 2 min read) from Women's Weekly, Australia, is not only an eye-opener, but could open up the sex lives of millions of women around the world as Australian women…
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Read to stimulate the erotic brain – and your relationship.

Of course, arousal starts in the brain, and many experts claim reading erotic literature can “fire fantasies and provide sexual happiness whether you are single or in a relationship.” It gives “bedtime reading” a whole new meaning with…
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TEDx Talk: “Orgasm Equality”

Dr. Laurie Mintz is dedicated to "orgasm equality." And she's got a lot to say about it – in 11 min. Watch >>
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What can we do about the fuckin’ orgasm gap?

Like wages, women live with sex inequality. The orgasm gap is a cultural problem and we have to fix it. Read "Today" article (6 min): "Why It Exists" >>
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The orgasm: What do women want?

Research shows women's preferences and experiences vary widely There's a good article from Medical News Today that indicates how much societal norms and the media heavily influence how we view women’s orgasms.  Here are a few highlights. …
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“Choose to Challenge” – International Women’s Day, March 8, 2021

The challenge: Read more sex! The reward: Have more sex (3 min read) In our opinion ... 'IWD' should be any day that a woman does not feel sexually fulfilled. It's a right, not a wish! Sometimes, as a woman, I just get tired of challenging…
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Fake orgasms are ‘fake news’ and …

need to come out of the dark in a fragile relationship. You can't fake dishonesty forever. If you asked 100 people what an orgasm feels like you would get 100 different answers. Because the orgasm is one of the most mysterious and least understood…
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The Case of the Female Orgasm …

and the "semen replacement theory"     Every woman should know about the "Semen Replacement Theory" These excellent featured illustrations (above) depict the workings of  the "semen displacement theory," which is explained…
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To be a true lover, every guy needs a Masters in Female Orgasms (MFO)

Men constantly fail at sex and yet women continually give them a pass. Why? Here's a 2 minute video course with real people telling us in why. Basically because so many of us – women and men – don't know what the fuck we're doing when it…
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10 Tips for a Better Orgasm – from hot baths to sex cocktails

No one actually needs to rally for the wonders of an orgasm when there's enough research—as psychologist and sex therapist Mary Jo Rapini explains—that the tremor-inducing release of serotonin and endorphins can boost the immune system and…
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The number of women having orgasms is in decline

and even before, it wasn't worth a good fuck. WTF? Somebody do something. Women? Men? Both? The amount we ignore the necessity of a woman's pleasure is unacceptable! Sex is about a lot more than just fucking and anything less than women…
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Funny TED TALK on orgasmic enlightenment

at the intersection of sex and science. Nobody has more fun talking about sex than Mary Roach. And writing about it, as she does in her blockbuster book, Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Sex and Science. Watch her 31 million viewed TED TALK first,…
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What It’s Like to Be a Female Who Ejaculates. Orgasms on a whole new level

"I'd become terribly afraid—'dick shy,' the boys my age would say." In pre-Google 1996 ... we all bought into the mythical value of virginity [which] had the unintended effect of encouraging creative experimentation. Oral sex was okay.…
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The truth and a few facts will set you free …

from an overdose of penis size anxiety. Two-thirds, 68%, of men are concerned about the size of their penis even though 90% of all men have what is defined as an "average size." WTF? Get over it. And stop thinking about changing it. And yet,…
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“Sex takes the least amount of time and yet …

causes the most amount of trouble" – John Barrymore. No woman needs a clock to confirm Barrymore's claim that most of the time, the time invested in sex is too short ... quick, fast, down and over. And too many times, it's one of the reasons…
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Playboy Advisor presents Episode One: The Female Orgasm.

Don't miss Shannon Boodram's graphic illustration of the wondrous workings of the female orgasm. Stop suffering in silence. Silence is an unnecessary and despicable killer of sex. To break the silence we've embedded the Playboy Advisor video…
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Sad sex facts and myths about women …

WTF? Can't somebody tell the truth? Women don't just suffer from centuries of myopic, misogynistic, patriarchal cruelty, they suffer from contemporary ignorance that undermines their natural birthright – a healthy, fulfilling sex life. "Great…
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The Story of O – Review

“I read Story of O and I think, you know, if you’ve read Story of O you’ve kind of read the ultimate.” —J. K. ROWLING J. K. Rowling knows a thing or two about "the ultimate" in storytelling and when it comes to the ultimate in erotic,…
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Pleasure is the measure (a podcast)

Everything – well almost – you need to hear about sex and never had a chance to listen to. This is an excellent podcast with Dr. Emily Nagoski. "My clitoris is my favorite," is a declaration by a two-year-old girl about her body parts and…
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My Epic Journey to Find the “Skene’s Gland,” the Mystical Source of Female Ejaculation

"The Skene's fill with fluid during sexual arousal and if stimulated during sexual arousal, sex, or masturbation, can actually release this liquid." The question is: Can squirting be self-taught? I decided to find out once and for all ...…
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Did you know you can get your vagina high? 

Cannabis and coitus. Weed lube is a thing– and it’s legal! More and more women are turning to cannabis to reawaken their ladybits and make things interesting in the bedroom.  From The Quick & Dirty podcast, Hilary and Sandra talk to…
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The Importance of Male Ejaculation for Female Sexual Satisfaction and Function

From: The Journal of Sexual Medicine, Volume 16, Issue 7, July 2019 "This is the very first study to explore the importance of male ejaculation volume and intensity for women’s sexual functioning. Data are of self-report nature and ejaculation…