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“Missionary” in sex can be ordinary

or it can create the deepest, trusting connection. "His aggression finds its denouement in her yielding." The missionary position is consider by many as "ordinary" – same old, same old – but it doesn't have to be. Even though we often…
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We’ve been lied to about women’s sexuality …

and the truth is very different. It's quite normal, very exciting and easily understood. So learn all about it – read this New York Times bestseller It's amazing what honesty and science can do for our understanding. Enough knowledge and…
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Can cannabis create better orgasms?

"Research showed cannabis led to longer, more satisfying orgasms." CBD can dramatically improve your sex life and CBD lubricants and cannabis can create better orgasms, reducing discomfort and pain, increasing libido and decreasing stress.…
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Can CBD result in more satisfying sex?

"OMG Yes" ... and less pain, less anxiety and more and better orgasms. Here are just a few "good news" stories of how CBD can result in more satisfying sex – from alleviating soreness to enhancing relationship satisfaction: Women reported…
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How to use CBD for sex?

There's a lot to know and size matters (dosage). Surveys show the majority of people (68%) have better sex when using Cannabis and CBD. But there's a lot to learn and anyone interested should get up to speed on how to use CBD for sex. And this…
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“Frottage sex” – orgasms without penetration

Frottage: From the French word frott, which means "rub"— it's fun to say and fun to do. Sure, we all did a fair share of rubbing as teens – bumping and grinding while not knowing fuck all about sex. But it's all we knew. Fast-forward into…
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“Outerplay” leads to out-of-this-world orgasms

and all without penetration! Penetration is really just one of the tools in the toolbox, so to speak, and "outerplay" brings a whole new meaning to foreplay. In fact, it goes well beyond foreplay and can lead you to out-of-this-world orgasms…
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A woman’s body is a must-read if …

you expect a happy-ever-after ending. If 'knowledge is king' then the king of lovers is a man who knows the deep, divine, inner workings of a woman's body and how to read her every need, desire and most intimate responses. "I was lucky this…
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Longer sex does not equal better sex!

Vaginas are durable but too long can ... cause long recovery times. "[Even though the] vagina is incredibly durable, it's important to know that if you want to go 'all night long,' you have a lube to take you through." – Marla Renee Stewart,…
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“Welcome to my vagina …”

In here, I make the rules!" Wow! Honest, healthy, sex talk – in advertising – that talks about women's wonderful sexual world. "Welcome to my vagina" is a great conversation starter. Girls, we have to openly and honestly talk about all…
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Sex is like “dancing with the stars” if …

you have a partner who can dance to the rhythm of sex. Hopefully your sex has had 30 great seasons like the American TV series, Dancing with the Stars. And if it hasn't, there's a good chance it's because of a lack of sexual rhythm – yes,…
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Is Your Sex Lube Full of Toxic Chemicals?

Probably ... if so, it's time to go natural. (4 min) "Do you really know what you're putting on your genitals?" Excellent article from Michael Stahl at InsideHook. He states clearly, "Many legacy lubricants, like KY and Astroglide, for example,…
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What’s in your nightstand?

Maybe it holds a secret or two about your sex life? Or not. (2 min) Lori Hughes shares the four "must-haves" she has in her nightstand. And why? "I used to have a large nightstand filled with all kinds of 'stuff.' But I'm a minimalist so…
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“Cannasexual” (noun): Anyone who combines cannabis and sex …

to deepen intimacy, enhance pleasure and have better sex. (6 min) The Journal of Sexual Medicine published a Stanford study in 2017 researching whether heterosexual cannabis users had more, less or the same amount of sex as non-users. Fifty…
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Sex can feel this good? Thank you CBD!

“I unlearned my cannabis bias.” – Ashley Manata CBD just might be your sex life's best friend. Maybe we can re-coin the phrase "sex with benefits" to include sex with CBD? There are many uses that can increase pleasure and intimacy and…
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5 reasons women AND men fake orgasms.

"In my early 20s, I just wasn’t that interested in sex." – Lisa Hawkins Maybe it starts early? Here's a glimpse inside Lisa Hawkins's take on faking. Since not being "interested in sex," she has been a coach and counselor for 26 years…
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Why men are faking orgasms too and …

why they shouldn't perpetrate sex fraud. "Men are faking orgasms around 16 percent of the time." – Survey Fake orgasms are like a virus and we all need a large dose – a vaccination in the form of serious conversation – to increase our…
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100 million fake orgasms everyday is …

the height of dishonesty, dissatisfaction and disillusionment! (2 min) "Two in three women fail to climax during every sex session." Worse, this number raises a million dollar question: What the fuck are we doing? Because we sure as hell…
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Women … stop the fiction.

Don't choke off your orgasms! "Entire sectors of women do not even know the vast capacity for their body." – Lotus Indigo Shakti Kruse Here is an excellent article (by a guy no less), that slams the cultural shame and fiction that society…
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The Secrets of Sexually Woke [a podcast]

If you do not have time to read Dr. Susan's book Sexually Woke: Awaken the Secrets to Your Best Sex Life in Midlife & Beyond then 55 minutes of your time is well invested listening to her podcast, which captures the essence of her most powerful…
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Sex toys can be sex-after-40’s best friend …

but shopping for them can be a bit overwhelming. (a fascinating 7 minute shopping guide) "Not only do you have to figure out what everything does, you also have to figure out if it aligns with how you like it to be done." Browse to your hearts…
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Six tips for the best sex of your life …

after 50. Hell, after 40. "Orgasm is not an event, it’s a process, and it starts and finishes with connection" – Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith Some perspicacious woman once said, "Until you are forty, it's all practice." Nowhere is that more…
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Let the magic of after-40 sex begin …

with an awakening that can be "magical." (4 min) "We have spent our whole adult lives trying to give ourselves to something outside of ourselves." – Debbi Serafinchon In just 4 minutes this article just might give you some insight as to…
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One thing better after 40 is … sex

Five things that make the sex at age 40 better than anytime before. (6 min) [Photo: Cary Grant and Eva Marie Saint were beautifully over 40 in North by Northwest - no sex scenes back then but bet they had it] "Sex is dramatically better…
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Why do women sexually disrespect and …

deny their sexual needs, and their partner's? (4 min) "57.1% of women want their partner to feel successful." This fake orgasm contagion is only going to get solved if we women resolve to change our nurturing, submissive, disrespectful treatment…
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National Orgasm Day for women is …

no holiday from orgasms. That can happen any day of the year. (1 min) Yes, there really is a National Orgasm Day (July 31 every year) and it's celebrated around the world. It might help with awareness of the problem but not sure how much…
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What Is The Orgasm Gap?

More women experience the reality of the 'orgasm gap' than know what the scientifically coined phrase means. But we should all understand it and with 'National Orgasm Day' being celebrated on July 31st women everywhere should celebrate orgasms…
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Norwegian sex-ed show teaches kids to …

French kiss and masturbate (video 6 min) Those damn Norwegians, they're so smart and advanced when it comes to sex. This would never happen in Canada or America ... pity. This is sex-ed as it should be, Norwegian style. Norway's state-funded…
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Masturbation has multiple health benefits

and during Covid the benefits would've increased significantly. (5 min) "Men masturbate almost twice as much as women: 14.8 times per month versus 7.8 times per month." Here is an article, "How Often Do Americans Masturbate" that gives you…
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How to masturbate with …

a Vagina: 28 Tips and Tricks for Solo Play. (7 min) "Sure, exercise is a great way to relieve stress and improve your sleep. But so is enjoying a little one-on-one time with you and your body." Any article with 28 tips about masturbation…