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Dating an insecure guy is a problem. Five reasons to run!

This article provides five signs of insecurity but we suggest if there's more than one – even one – you need to question whether it's a viable, long-term relationship. Because insecurity has deep roots and rebuilding a guy is not something…
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Sophie Turner Calls ‘Game of Thrones’ Her “Sex Education” … well, you learn where you can

Turner, who plays Sansa Stark on Game of Thrones, sat down with the Times' magazine and got very real about coming of age on the hit show's set. Specifically, she says the show's explicit (and often problematic) sex scenes were her own version…
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Vaginal steaming? WTF is that?

Doctors say there's no evidence it works—and it may even be dangerous. But Gwyneth Paltrow of Goop fame says it's a good thing, so millions are gettin' steamy. But there's no evidence it makes a damn bit of difference. So vagina owners beware:…
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My Epic Journey to Find the “Skene’s Gland,” the Mystical Source of Female Ejaculation

"The Skene's fill with fluid during sexual arousal and if stimulated during sexual arousal, sex, or masturbation, can actually release this liquid." The question is: Can squirting be self-taught? I decided to find out once and for all ...…
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Did you know you can get your vagina high? 

Cannabis and coitus. Weed lube is a thing– and it’s legal! More and more women are turning to cannabis to reawaken their ladybits and make things interesting in the bedroom.  From The Quick & Dirty podcast, Hilary and Sandra talk to…
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Bad sex in fiction – wins a prize?

As ardent writers of sex in fiction, we carefully note this Literary Review of Annual Bad Sex in Fiction awards. It's the worst lines in fiction under the criteria of 'poorly written, perfunctory or redundant passages of sexual description'.…
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The Importance of Male Ejaculation for Female Sexual Satisfaction and Function

From: The Journal of Sexual Medicine, Volume 16, Issue 7, July 2019 "This is the very first study to explore the importance of male ejaculation volume and intensity for women’s sexual functioning. Data are of self-report nature and ejaculation…
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Are men disposable? A new study

Original by Maria Kouloglout, Quillette, June, 2019 A 2016 study published in Social Psychological and Personality Science found that people are more willing to sacrifice men than women in a time of crisis and that they are more willing to…
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Two Sexperts on How to Upgrade Your Oral Sex Game

Remember the Katz's Delicatessen scene from the movie When Harry Met Sally, when Estelle Reiner said, "I'll have what she's having!"  Well one of the items on your menu should be staying in the moment, whether you're giving or receiving, because…
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The Ultimate Ranking of ‘Game of Thrones’ Sex Scenes

Thanks to HBO's "the more naked people, the better" policy, Game of Thrones explored some boundary-pushing sex scenes—and not all of them are without controversy. But the show's *best* sex scenes aren't the ones that are simply controversial.…
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Inside the Wild World of “Pony Play” Sex

How pretending to be a horse helped me explore my own humanity. "I stripped down to a bra and panties, and Cowboy fitted me in a leather body harness with an attached tail and a head piece with a mane." Empowerment has been my guiding…
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Naked Yoga and Cuddle Parties … Lap Dancing Clubs for the Woke

“I don’t know what it is, but I’ve noticed that if there’s an event with nakedness, the majority of people who turn up will be older guys.” As a journalist writing about weird workshops and unusual classes I’ve covered cuddle…