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Three women, three stories and deep entanglements of

 love, desire, sex and the need to be something to somebody (2 min read) Unfulfilled desire could not be more needed, more real. More riveting. This is non-fiction storytelling at its best, revealing the pain, pleasure and hypocrisies…
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What are men so afraid of? You’d be surprised – or not!

Their "fear" tells you more than anything else – and should make you fearful (2 min read / 9 min video) “Immature men scare easily. … they are terrified of relationships. They run for the hills.” Fear manifests itself as insecurity…
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This is about anyone who has ever loved and …

the fact that monogamy has nothing to do with love. (Overview: 3 minute read / The Atlantic article: 17 minutes /  TED talk: 21 minutes – all worth your time) “It is our imagination that is responsible for love, not the other person.”…
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Who doesn’t want to be happy?

Everybody wants to be happy, few know how. This book can change that.   (3 min read) Tell me and I'll probably forget. Show me and I might remember. Let me do it, and I'll never forget. – Chinese proverb This book will "tell you"…
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Getting a Master’s Degree in Sex starts …

with these easy lessons in "cliteracy" (less than 2 min read) "The most crucial action needed to orgasm with a partner is to get the same type of stimulation you use when pleasuring yourself." Sex is not rocket science but if women want to…
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So tell me about the last time …

you had sex. "You get to write the script ... how you want sex to occur in action ... and how you want to express it." If ever there was a case where the 'book is better than the movie (there's no movie, yet),' this is it. The bonus is, your…
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Ladies – everything you need to know about him, right down to his perineum

Must-read rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ (Must-read ratings (1♥ – 5♥) based on the contribution to understanding and enjoyment in love, sex & success) "The worse thing a woman can do is take desire for granted and assume he should…

💘 Cupid’s arrow doesn’t always hit the mark …

and knowing why is a wonderful, loving Valentine's Day gift ❣️ (3 min) Cupid's Poisoned Arrow is a tell-you-all-you-need-to-know book that will change what you think about cupid and Valentine's and orgasms. Yes, orgasms! And most important,…
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Our sex problems are not in the bedroom …

they are in our head, awaiting the quiet power of sexual and loving mindfulness. Mindfulness is ... quieting and steadying the mind; becoming aware of bodily sensations; and learning how we hang on, how to let go, and how to channel meditative…
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Your vagina is not dead she is …

taking a nap. A clarion call for women and sex after 40. (2 min) You can have the best sex of your life after 40 and this book shows you the path. We slightly paraphrased Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith who said, "She's not dead, she's taking a…
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Want to start an intimate conversation?

This woman knows how. And tells us how in a great starter book "Watch their feet, not their mouth." The old axiom above is for measuring the value of a person's actions over their words – and it's a good guide – but Shamyra Howard's short,…
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We’ve been lied to about women’s sexuality …

and the truth is very different. It's quite normal, very exciting and easily understood. So learn all about it – read this New York Times bestseller It's amazing what honesty and science can do for our understanding. Enough knowledge and…
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Every women should see these photos & read the stories

Laura Dodsworth photographed 100 vulvas and this book exposes them and their beautiful stories. It is the ultimate in sharing. Reading this book is as valuable as having a deep, honest conversation with an intimate friend, a sex therapists…
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The Pregnant Widow ain’t what ya’ think she is

(7 min) This is a boomers' lament of a time of unrequited love, lust, sex and need. It's a book club bonanza for endless discussion of characters, human sexuality, feminism, lost lives and the writing genius of Martin Amis. The critics have…
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The most demeaning women for women are

"Pick-Me Girls" and "Himpathy Girls." (see podcast interview at end of review) Girls this is on us! If anyone is going to fix misogyny, it has to be us. And it starts with realizing that seeking male validation is dumb and demeaning. And…
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Make the bedroom your gym and …

your partner the best dumbbell you ever worked out with. (3 min) "Try new positions that will work your core and blow your... mind." The subtitle of this book tells you all you need to know: Sexual Fitness: The Ultimate Guide to Pump While…
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Sex can feel this good? Thank you CBD!

“I unlearned my cannabis bias.” – Ashley Manata CBD just might be your sex life's best friend. Maybe we can re-coin the phrase "sex with benefits" to include sex with CBD? There are many uses that can increase pleasure and intimacy and…
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Fuck sexual distancing and solo sex …

here's a story about wild, glorious sex and avoiding the virus. (6 min) "I loved it. He filled me with affirmation. Fuck sexual distancing. He was a hunk. A lawyer. Lived on Fifth Avenue – a $5 million pad. Came from money. It was the sexual…

Is sex in fiction closer to reality than real sex?

Compare these three excerpts and decide for yourself. In the novel Conflict of Interest, Yale Walter's is more than  an investment risk for Victoria Dyson, he's an erotic and torturous conflict of interest between her financial responsibility…
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“You don’t have to hate your husband …

to love this book." (5 min) "It's far better to ask for what you need than silently stew." Here's an excellent summary and review by Elisabeth McKnight of How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids. Every mother (and her partner) should…
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Piloerection – you might get one but …

it might not be what you want. (3 min) Piloerection (noun): The human response where hairs on the skin stand up on end as a physiological response to a strong emotional feeling such as extreme fear, sadness, joy and sexual arousal. "You…
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“Fuck Him … Fuck Tinder …

and take control of your dating and sex life – and the men in your life! "Fuck him in this case is not physical, it's mental." This short pithy, beautifully candid book, "Fuck Him! Nice Girls Always Finish Single" (we'd say unfulfilled…
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One unimaginable murderous truth and …

one irresistible erotic attraction! The only thing more intriguing than sexy sheriff Mike Cougar is the murder mystery and the carnal need for his too-sexy-to-be-a-cop deputy sheriff, Gritt Hansen, Olympic medalist in the women’s 400 metres. …
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“Open Me,” the story of a virgin-once-removed and

her once-in-a-lifetime, summer of sex and self-discovery "The love you feel is for yourself, Roxana. It is freedom speaking its joy to you." Forget Nancy Drew, Harlequin Dare and porn, every teenage girl should read Open Me – as well as…
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Without masturbation – solo sex –

we cannot love a partner fully! (3 min) "It's sex with someone you love.” – Woody Allen Woody Allen understands the wonderful benefits of masturbation but tens-of-millions of people don't – especially women. Masturbation,…
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In sex “fake” is destructive but …

sex in fiction is regenerative and renewing. (5 min)  "74% of women who read erotic fiction have more sex." We have posted an excerpt from the novel, Deadsizing: One unimaginable murderous truth and one irresistible erotic attraction. Lori…
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The Dying Animal

A classic tale of old man-young woman sexual reality Must-read rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ (Must-read ratings (1♥ – 5♥) are based on the contribution to understanding and enjoyment in love, sex & success. "Stop worrying about growing…
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“Upsucking” is a special penis talent …

that owners and renters know nothing about. (5 min read) The penis is known throughout the world by men and women (the vast majority) and yet, so little is known about "him." Why do we know so little about such an essential life giving,…
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“Men” … what are they good for?

A helluva lot more than they actually think they are! #MeToo is a movement, and a good one. It's making headway and we've "come a long way baby," but still have a long way to go. And women aren't alone in needing a movement, so do men. Ladies,…
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Mathilde: A short story

Mathilde (15 minute read) Mathilde was a hat maker in Paris and barely twenty when she was seduced by the Baron. Although the affair did not last more than two weeks, somehow in that short time she became, by contagion, imbued with his philosophy…