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Office lust – and love – are inevitable!

We just have to learn how to "manage" them. Office-mates often become bed-mates. 1/3 of employees started relationships with colleagues during the pandemic ... who says Zoom doesn't connect us? Proximity – physical, emotional, intellectual…
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Why Happy People Cheat

A good marriage is no guarantee against infidelity (17 min read) From The Atlantic: This essay is written by Esther Perel and adapted from her book, The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity. See Book Review and buy at Love & Sexcess…
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From lust to love in New York …

In "smokey hotel rooms with drawn shades buried deep within the city, we had but one purpose. Indulgence." Great story and lessons learned from living the secrets of lust to a mindset for love – with someone else. Read (4 min) at Elephant…
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Illicit encounters are a booming affair and …

there are wonderful websites dedicated to the state of affairs From UK survey by IllicitEncounters: IllicitEncounters, in the UK claims to have had over 1,000,000 users since 2004. That's a lot of extra-marital affairs! Ashley Madison,…
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Women too are untrue, and have …

cheating minds, hearts and bodies not unlike men. (2 min read) "I want the penis but not the complications that go with it." – Trudy (33 and married). Ladies, embrace your lust! And read this book. It will change the way you think about…
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Cheating is cheating … on yourself

It's a need – a 'void' – cheating women need to understand. (3 min read) From Your tango, here's one woman's story: I Cheated On Every partner I Had – Here's Why by Alex Alexander. "I thrived on the newness of a ripped body pressed…
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‘Cheating hearts’ need alibis …

There's more cheating then alibis but here are the most popular ones – if you're suspicious. Current research indicates that both men and women are equally likely to cheat on their partner, a statistic that used to favor men in the past.…
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120,000 people started extra-marital affairs in January!

And there are dating sites dedicated to cheating, to "illicit encounters." According to a UK study by an online dating site, IllicitEncounters, there are certain times of the year when we cheat more than others. January is the most "popular"…
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Cheaters are selfish but WTF, don’t confess!

There's an old saying, "What we don't know can't hurt us," and nowhere is it, perhaps, wiser advice than in consideration of confessing infidelity, in marriage or any relationship. The guilt may be more about the cheater's selfishness than the…
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The emptiness of cheating: A woman’s sad diary

As Gore Vidal said, "Sex is." That's it, nothing more. And yet, when we read a diary like this thirty-nine year old, New York woman, with multiple secret boyfriends, most of us are taken aback that she's asking, 'Why do I cheat on my boyfriend,…
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Why We Cheat

Before starting, we also recommend reading, Sex At Dawn: Why We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships. We are planning a book review of this non-fiction gem, so check Book Review section and see if it has been posted…
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Sex Diaries: The Woman Searching for the Lust She Didn’t Have Before

"He was a pretty good kisser but I have a feeling that despite his 6-foot-2 frame, he has a tiny dick. That’s a deal-breaker for me. My ex-fiancé had an average, “eh,” cock and it always made me want to cheat on him (I never did). I’d…
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Does size matter? Depends …

on the size, structure and purpose of what you're referring to There's much talk, much research, much myth and plenty of bullshit, but in the end, research shows that "size matters" to women. But wait, it not just about the penis. Hang on guys,…
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Lady Chatterley’s Lover

Classic. Erotic. Timeless. This is Downton Abbey without the legacy money, phony peerage and domineering dowager, but still with the inbred arrogance. It's much closer to the real story of British hypocrisy in class status, uninhabited marriage,…