Five true, dirty, smokin’-hot sex tales …

Writers share their most memorable sex of the year! "Some are funny, some are delicate, some are raunchy, some are sweet and some are silly, but they are all, on some level, very serious." – Kayla Kibbe @kay_kibbe is one of our fave sex…
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Can a relationship survive no sex?

It's negotiable! If two First Ladies and two Presidents can negotiate a loving, no-sex relationship then there has to be hope for all the other long-term relationships facing the "doom" of no sex. "Right up there with food and water, sex is…

No, opposites don’t attract and …

every dating app knows it. Get used to it! It's just not true that we want to meet someone "different." The evidence is clear: "Opposites repel." Deeply ingrained in our psyche and genetic make up is a need to be with someone we trust and…

Over 50? How many sex partners have you had?

Study reports how many sex partners people over 50 have had ... surprise! Answering this question really requires an open, secure and strong relationship. And hopefully if you're over 50 this is the case. "Body count, like the concept of virginity,…

Sex in public can be a big turn on but …

is the possibility of getting caught worth the risk? Many women say, "You bet it is! But if you want to explore sex in public places there are a few things you should do to prepare – make a sex check list. Here's an article from O School…
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So tell me about the last time …

you had sex. "You get to write the script ... how you want sex to occur in action ... and how you want to express it." If ever there was a case where the 'book is better than the movie (there's no movie, yet),' this is it. The bonus is, your…

Talking dirty –  if you think it, fantasize it, say it!

Give voice to your erotic potential. Dirty talk is not dirty, it happens best at the height of open, honest, loving intimacy. In loving sex, saying what we truly think, feel, fantasize, want and need is the ultimate expression of our erotic…
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Our sex problems are not in the bedroom …

they are in our head, awaiting the quiet power of sexual and loving mindfulness. Mindfulness is ... quieting and steadying the mind; becoming aware of bodily sensations; and learning how we hang on, how to let go, and how to channel meditative…

Aging is no longer a dirty word!

Beauty, sex and sapiosexuality can be a woman's domain no matter her age! “I love my neck wrinkles! I think they’re awesome!” – Paulina Porizkova At age 56, Paulina Porizkova is standing up, speaking out, expressing and exploring what…
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Great sex at 20 can be bad sex at 40!

Unless you know and talk a lot about sex. That's a good point! In fact, there are many points that are so important to know if you want to have a fulfilling sex life throughout your life. If you know and understand yourself and sex, you…

Is it the death of the one-night stand?

 Maybe? And many of us "would want this" and welcome it. Post-pandemic fucking is going to be a whole fucking lot different and there's a lot of good news – mostly, for most of us. Of course, what we don't know is when this fucking pandemic…

What do singles really want? Don’t laugh!

 83% want emotional maturity. "Emotional maturity is the new sexy." Looking for emotional maturity might be a laughing matter for Jennifer Aniston but it's not for the majority of singles (let's face it, after two tries she's single again…

After 3 years only 55% of women are sexually …

satisfied – and only 43% of men. Unacceptable. Unnecessary! Plus, only about 1/3 of women and men say the sex is as passionate now as it was at the beginning. Women: 55% satisfied / 27% dissatisfied / 18% neutral Men: 43% satisfied…
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Let’s play sex games

This is no 'Trivial Pursuit,' it's a serious pursuit in the game of sex. "The pandemic left us missing intimacy and play. So I created a game that helped us do both. The game is designed to help us connect and reconnect in a time of social…
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89% of us have had relationship sex issues

That's 9-of-10 of us missing out on a portion of one of life's greatest experiences. "This isn't just about sex, this is about your life." – Bez Stone Which of these two graphs looks like your life? (Bez Stone explains them in her revealing…
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“Spontaneous desire” can sustain a lifetime of sexual connection

It's like a lightening bolt to the genitals – Kaboom! "Spontaneous desire is one of two ways couples sustain a strong lifetime of sexual connection," says Emily Nagoski Emily Nagoski, sex educator and author of the bestselling book, Come…
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Reverse cowgirl can be “dangerous!”

for the health of your penis. Caveat owners – and renters. (3 min) "50% of penile fractures happen in the reverse cowgirl position." – Dr. Karan Raj. The reverse cowgirl can be dangerous to the health of your penis – whether you're…
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We’ve been lied to about women’s sexuality …

and the truth is very different. It's quite normal, very exciting and easily understood. So learn all about it – read this New York Times bestseller It's amazing what honesty and science can do for our understanding. Enough knowledge and…
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Sex is like “dancing with the stars” if …

you have a partner who can dance to the rhythm of sex. Hopefully your sex has had 30 great seasons like the American TV series, Dancing with the Stars. And if it hasn't, there's a good chance it's because of a lack of sexual rhythm – yes,…
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“To the guy who used me for sex …

I’m the girl you don’t deserve." – Amanda Kelly You can say that again! Amanda Kelly has written a pithy, perspicacious, open and honest dissertation on the flip side of misogyny. She gets it. And tells it like we would all like to…
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“No!” is a complete sentence and …

 all we princesses need to know how, when and where to use it. "I don’t understand the confusion around consent. It’s not complicated—it’s actually simple as fuck." Many of the problems around consent are nothing more than men reacting…
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“Pick-Me-Girls” are insecure and fake …

like "Himpathy women" and their fake orgasms. These women sure as fuck aren't helping any of us. "Pick-Me-ism"and "himpathy" are the epitome of insecure, weak women desperate for male attention and willing to tear down other women to support…
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“Show me a fucked up teen and …

I'll show you fucked up parents." This old maxim is self-evident in the facts found in a Harvard study that shows as a society we are failing our young people in guiding them in how to love (have sex] and develop romantic relationships. And…
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Post-covid sex: Just when we thought it was safe to jump back in bed

This fuckin' Covid virus is like a bad movie or a serial horror story and it could be the worst STD we've ever encountered. And it just might be coming back with a vengeance. Different name (Delta variant), same shit! Even Steven Spielberg couldn't…
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Is post-covid sex more adventurous or cautious?

Some of us now have FOGO (fear of going out) and FODA (fear of dating again). It's to be expected and we shouldn't be either guilt-ridden or dismissively 'don't-give-a-shit.' We should be reflective, thoughtful ... and do what's best for us.…
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Breaking up when you’re horny for someone new is not always a good idea!

“The two worst times in your life to make an important decision are when you’re feeling really, really bad and really, really good." – Peter Pearson. Millions of us are in this conflicting post-covid state. But lusting and leaping into…
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Tinder and swiping for sex were synonymous until …

Covid changed the way we want our sex – quality over quantity! No more bleeding fingers from swiping for sex on Tinder, like other 'perks' in our sex lives, Tinder has been changed by Covid. Tinder wants to be more than just a sex swipe…
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Hindsight is worth a million ‘hook ups’

Did Covid sexual distancing teach us anything about casual sex? "I was eating men like a praying mantis ... it was a dependency." – Pavlina Fedakova In this 3 minute article one woman rips the veneer off of millions of women's emotional…
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Fuck sexual distancing and solo sex …

here's a story about wild, glorious sex and avoiding the virus. (6 min) "I loved it. He filled me with affirmation. Fuck sexual distancing. He was a hunk. A lawyer. Lived on Fifth Avenue – a $5 million pad. Came from money. It was the sexual…
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Intellectual curiosity is a turn on for …

the sexual curiosity in your sapiosexuality (3 min). It's true. You might be a sapiosexual. And that's a good thing. And if your partner is ... wow! Remember, women who read about sex have 74% more sex. It gives erotica and reading about…