No … yes! Yes … no! Consent and the …

liberated woman doesn't mean your sexually liberated. Good interview. Great book. A must-read! "Modern heterosexual dating culture appears to be an emotional meat grinder whose miseries and degradations can’t be solved by ever more elaborate…

Clitoris: Worshipping the pearl with cunnilingus …

How to give divine cunnilingus to the pearl of sexual pleasure. Like an oyster becomes a pearl so too can cunnilingus become a divine act of pleasure. You need only know how! And if he doesn't, you can guide your loving angel, your god of love,…

Do you care if he’s divorced? Shouldn’t!

A divorced man can come with significant benefits! It might seem counterintuitive but a divorced man might be a great catch. Of course there are caveats but a woman should not dismiss dating a divorced man simply because he's divorced. “Life-changing…

Grab your headsets because listening to sex

gets you off  gloriously and gives voice to your deepest desires! It's true! Listening to sex stories can give voice to your innermost fantasies. It gives a whole new meaning to 'talking dirty.' It's audio porn or audio eroticism and can…
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TEDx TALK: “Sex is becoming an endangered species

and we've turned our back on it. TEDx Talk (11 min) Wow! This is a must-watch sex talk. It's takes less time to watch than the average time it takes a woman to reach orgasm (12 min). And this could lead you to orgasmic heights you've never…
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His orgasms are like this …

and mine flatline most of the time! Enough! This article depicts the essence of the orgasm-sex gap by relating a scene in the HBO movie, “The Undoing” with Nicole Kidman. The writer asks, "Why do we have to watch sex scenes like this?" "Women…
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Ladies, need stress relief? Forget the gym, yoga, pilates, head for the bedroom

Release tension with these five relaxing, natural, stress-relieving sex positions Stress is natural, so is sex, and they are often antithetical to each other. Too much stress, too little sex, especially good sex. And yet, done right, sex can…
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Our sex problems are not in the bedroom …

they are in our head, awaiting the quiet power of sexual and loving mindfulness. Mindfulness is ... quieting and steadying the mind; becoming aware of bodily sensations; and learning how we hang on, how to let go, and how to channel meditative…

Let us introduce you to a real cowgirl.

one who has given a lot of thought to your sexual pleasure and well-being, not just TV binge-watching. We've met a real cowgirl with a real story to tell. And she's from Colorado, not a fictional Yellowstone Ranch in Montana. We'd like to…
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“I have never had an orgasm.” – Sherry

"I am afraid to have an orgasm." – Denise. “For me there’s a lot of shame wrapped up in this topic.” “I’m excited and I’m also terrified.” “I’ve spent my whole life running the other way. And I’m ready to stop doing…
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Want sex? Get vaccinated!

80% of vaccinated singles want their partners to be vaccinated. In difficult times (pandemics) some people suck it up, toughen up, grow and mature, others don't. American singles have! Yesterday we posted about a national study by @match…
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Beginner’s night at a sex club – you in?

Roman is probably in, are you? If anyone would go to a luxury sex club it would be Roman Roy from the HBO blockbuster, Succession. Of course, the show is fiction and so is Roman but ... the number of people going to luxury sex clubs is increasing…
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Pussy owners need to know and talk more sex …

and know WTF we're talking about! As long as we leave the decisions about our sexual pleasure and well-being to our pussy, we will never have a lifetime of sexual fulfillment. Never! Our exquisite, wonderful, mysterious pussy needs us in…
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“If he’s sexually satisfied, then …

I'm sexually satisfied. Noooo...! This attitude among too many women is the height of sexual injustice, sexual inequality. "Intimate justice asks us to consider who is entitled to engage in an experience. Who is entitled to enjoy it? Who is…
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We’ve been lied to about women’s sexuality …

and the truth is very different. It's quite normal, very exciting and easily understood. So learn all about it – read this New York Times bestseller It's amazing what honesty and science can do for our understanding. Enough knowledge and…
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How to let go of resentment–in 3 minutes

"Resentment is like putting on armor with inward spikes." – Brandilyn Tebo Short and sweet, this video by Brandilyn Tebo just might kick-start your efforts to rid yourself of resentment and release your authentic self into your own world…
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Piloerection – you might get one but …

it might not be what you want. (3 min) Piloerection (noun): The human response where hairs on the skin stand up on end as a physiological response to a strong emotional feeling such as extreme fear, sadness, joy and sexual arousal. "You…
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Stress is a libido crusher and …

you are not alone. It's way too fuckin' common! (6 min) Female sexual interest/arousal disorder (FSIAD) occurs when the body doesn’t respond to sexual stimulation. 40% of women experience some type of sexual dysfunction, such as FSIAD…
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If we don’t say “yes” authentically …

we say "yes" resentfully. And regrets follow. “If we don’t say yes authentically, we say yes resentfully, and that leads to far more problems than if we’d said no in the first place.” – Natalie Lue Here's a great article about the…
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Sexual performance? You’re not in charge …

your brain is. And you're in your head too much! (4 min) "If our genitals could speak, they would tell us that they do not appreciate feeling pressured to perform." – Aurika Valan Being in your head can be a problem when it comes to 'giving…
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Erotic women can be leaders and this ode …

 "I am Woman" is a tribute to sexually empowered women. (3 min) "I am erotic. My sexual energy can be soft and sensual as well as provocative ... It’s a magical energy that I wouldn’t share with just anyone. You have to earn that privilege."…
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Ask for what you want …

and get it: 5 Qualities of Sexually Empowered Women (3 min) "A woman isn’t fully empowered unless and until she is sexually empowered." If you need a lift in your sexual empowerment or your libido or your sex life, these 5 qualities just…
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What does sexual empowerment feel like?

And how can we feel empowered, every day? (3 min) "35% of women take a condom with them when going on a date where they may have sex for reasons like not wanting to seem presumptuous, not liking condoms, or being too embarrassed." All we…
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Sexual empowerment is not about quantity

it's about quality – and your sexual empowerment! (6 min) "Sexual empowerment can absolutely mean having a lot of sex, but it doesn't have to. You can also be having tons of sex and not be sexually empowered. What it boils down to is power…
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“Fuck Him … Fuck Tinder …

and take control of your dating and sex life – and the men in your life! "Fuck him in this case is not physical, it's mental." This short pithy, beautifully candid book, "Fuck Him! Nice Girls Always Finish Single" (we'd say unfulfilled…
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Norwegian sex-ed show teaches kids to …

French kiss and masturbate (video 6 min) Those damn Norwegians, they're so smart and advanced when it comes to sex. This would never happen in Canada or America ... pity. This is sex-ed as it should be, Norwegian style. Norway's state-funded…
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Masturbation has multiple health benefits

and during Covid the benefits would've increased significantly. (5 min) "Men masturbate almost twice as much as women: 14.8 times per month versus 7.8 times per month." Here is an article, "How Often Do Americans Masturbate" that gives you…
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How to masturbate with …

a Vagina: 28 Tips and Tricks for Solo Play. (7 min) "Sure, exercise is a great way to relieve stress and improve your sleep. But so is enjoying a little one-on-one time with you and your body." Any article with 28 tips about masturbation…
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Party for One

Each year millions celebrate National Masturbation Day, which was so-named in 1995, and although we do not know how widely it is celebrated, we do know it is not confined to one day a year. Doctors now tell us that masturbation reduces…
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In honor of masturbation, we honor …

the passing of renowned 'solo sex' advocate, pro-sex feminist, sex educator Betty Dodson (1929-2020) (2 min) “A real orgasm is something that no matter where it comes from, a woman takes for herself.” – Betty Dodson Betty Dodson…