
In honor of masturbation, we honor …
the passing of renowned 'solo sex' advocate, pro-sex feminist, sex educator Betty Dodson (1929-2020)
(2 min)
“A real orgasm is something that no matter where it comes from, a woman takes for herself.” – Betty Dodson
Betty Dodson…

“Sexual kinks” are good for us and …
our sexual health, understanding and communications.
(4 min read)
"Our sexual fantasies, quirks and kinks aren’t just preferences, but powerful messages."
So many more of us should give ourselves permission to embrace our fantasies. And…

Six ways to “play with me” and …
they are all fantasies we can bring to life in the bedroom
"We all fantasize, some more than others.
A majority of women fantasize about the three most popular/common fantasies: Group sex, orgies, gangbangs.
Threesomes: 89%
Orgies:…

Amy Schumer isn’t joking when it comes to …
sex, women's sexual needs and rampant sexual ignorance.
Amy Schumer is funny, funny woman but she is as serious as fuck when it comes to speaking out about women's sexual inequality (here are a few video clips from Amy). And Sarah Barmak is…

“What a Smokin’ Hot Older Woman …
has to say to Women in their 20s & 30s.
(3 min read)
Listen up ladies. This is wisdom about loving ourselves – first and always!
"I’m a beautiful, radiant, mature woman, more fully realized than I ever knew I could be as a young…

What is sex positivity?
What the hell does sex-positive mean?
(2 min)
Here are 7 Sexperts sharing their definition of what Sex Positive means – and how to be more sex positive. It's a good start on deciding what you think sex positive means to you. And deciding…

What does it mean to have erotic integrity? Do you have enough?
The answer for most of us is a resounding – inexcusable – no!
Few of us have an honest answer to this question. Of course, most of us have answers about sex, but we're usually wrong. Miserably wrong. As in flunking. We get an "F" because…

Erotic Integrity – Review
"Complacency is the death of intimacy and eroticism." – Dr. Claudia Six, author of Erotic Integrity.
Complacency is the first-cousin of ignorance and together they stop most of us from ever realizing our human potential. Nowhere is that more…

Lust is our inner lioness …
and she needs to be released – constantly!
(Great article)
[Lust is] "Owning that little kitty inside who wants to be a lioness, releasing her and listening for the soft purr to turn into a fierce, resounding roar." – Anne Clendening
This…

Changing ‘pussy’ from a pejorative to a deification is …
a big reclamation project that needs every women – and a few good men – to change what has been defiled far too long.
The title of this book grabs your attention but it is the content that will grab your inner spirit and lift the real woman…

Women searching for self-respect in a misogynistic …
world should check-out Netflix's 'Miss Americana' and 'Sex Education.'
Netflix's hit series, 'Sex Education' (renewed for 3rd season) and Taylor Swift's documentary, 'Miss Americana' tear down what dark curtains hide. But before you grab…

“Sex debt” is no joke and …
41-year-old comedian, Melanie Hamlett has kicked-open the library door. She's smart, independent and funny – and free from "sex debt."
There are many reasons women don't get what they want in bed – all unacceptable – but Melanie Hamlett…

This is sex education where the homework is fun
and the benefits go far beyond 'good grades!'
Too many women are flunking the basics for getting a passing grade in pleasure. Too many women are not the woman they can be, should be and want to be. As NYT bestselling author, Regena Thomashauer…

“I’m still something if I don’t got a man …
I'm a free woman!" So sings Lady Gaga.
Chromatica, Lady Gaga's smash new album, raises more WTF questions than it inspires WTF voices. Great music with wavering lyrics that run the gamut of a woman's emotions from sadly trapped in relationships…

Escaping Covid-19 isolation through art, coloring and
a new depiction of Adam and Eve enjoying sex
(2 min read).
Leave it to Playboy to introduce a joyful childhood practice to help healthy sexual adults get through the sexual straight jacket of safe distancing. They're taking us back to coloring!…

Cheating is cheating … on yourself
It's a need – a 'void' – cheating women need to understand.
(3 min read)
From Your tango, here's one woman's story: I Cheated On Every partner I Had – Here's Why by Alex Alexander.
"I thrived on the newness of a ripped body pressed…

Playboy gifts – in case you forgot your Valentine on the 14th
Here's a chance at redemption, more fun and continuing a revolution.
When Playboy was introduced to the uptight, prude, hypocritical world in 1953, with the 1950s sex bombshell, Marilyn Monroe on the cover, it began a sexual revolution as a…

Why don’t we allow women to value sex in their life? [podcast]
"When women 'give' sex somehow they decrease in value and when men 'get' sex somehow they increase in value."
Here's a great chat. An introductory commentary (1 minute read) and a podcast (1 hour) with two well-informed, young women about…

Grieving Sex: I desperately wondered if the joy of sex would ever again replace the pall of death
I had never been around someone who had just lost someone – as in death – and it was unsettling, uncomfortable. Even though I was crazy about Ben, I wasn’t sure how to help him, what to do or say. At first, all I did was hold and kiss…

In the depths of grief, sex can make you want to live
"I was judged for having sex after my husband died. I think he would have understood."
Everyone grieves differently and our biological chemistry drives an overwhelming need to find pleasure and happiness amid dark loneliness. Sex can give you…

The Second Sex
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An epochal fiery work that…

Lady Chatterley’s Lover
Classic. Erotic. Timeless.
This is Downton Abbey without the legacy money, phony peerage and domineering dowager, but still with the inbred arrogance. It's much closer to the real story of British hypocrisy in class status, uninhabited marriage,…

Why Can’t a Woman be More Like a Man?
Original article by Toby Young, published May 24, 2018 in Quillette
Abstract and link to published Oxford Academic research follows the article.
A comment: Size matters
In the age of "big data," this resarch is big because it goes to the…