
Sex as it could be? Should be? And certainly has been
The Oneida Community Mansion, built between 1861-1878, is, today, a museum of ... depending on your point of view, either cult sex, a social order created on sexual pleasure, or a school of utopian, sexual theory and beliefs. As its founder,…

Confessions of a Male, Feminist Sex Addict
Image: Interior of a brothel in Naples, Italy, photographed in January, 1945
From Quillette, by Eric Frances McKillen (pseudonym), published February 11, 2019
"Sex without companionship corrodes the soul. I know this because it happened…

Safe-Sex Lies
photo: NYT archives
The lies we tell ourselves about sex never change
By MEGHAN DAUMJAN. 21, 1996 (10 minute read)
January 21, 1996, Page 006032 Buy Reprints. The New York Times Archives This is a digitized version of an article from The…

Does a More Equal Marriage Mean Less Sex?
Lora Gottlieb wrote this essay in the New York Times Magazine in 2014 (20 minute read)
"Power — and the act of balancing it — is a common topic with the couples I see in therapy. They’re eager to talk about leveling the domestic playing…

Boys on the Side
Is the hook up culture toxic or beneficial for women?
By Hanna Rosin, The Atlantic, September 2012 (15 min. read)
The hookup culture that has largely replaced dating on college campuses has been viewed, in many quarters, as socially corrosive…