In sex, do your 5 Senses get a high-five …

or a thumbs down? 👎🏼 Mirror, mirror on the wall, tell me I use them all. Most women (and men) do not intentionally and skillfully use their magnificent 5 senses during sex – before, during and after. And we don't know what we're missing.…

How much do penis “girl inches” matter?

Maybe no more than "vagina inches?" Why do women overestimate penis size? The internet is overflowing with information, facts and factoids on penis size and one phenomenon is called "girl inches." This refers to women overestimating the…

True story: If the sex is boring now …

it won't get any better after marriage. Stay single! From New York magazine's Sex Diaries we've posted a recent single woman's diary entry about one week in her sex life: Hooking Up With Her Partner Between Work Calls. Talk about boring…

Sex games – stop playing mind games and …

get into playing some hot sexy games! Sex sure as hell is no damn game and yet too many of us play it as a "mind game." Don't. Instead get yourself one of these 13 board games and your sex life may never be bored again. As in any game, the…

SEXNEWS in BRIEF

So much to know so little time!   Archives: Welcome to the archives of SEXNEWS in BRIEF May 25, 2022: Scientists believe that humans have as many as 53 senses, not just the original ‘Five Senses” as defined by Aristotle. Thermoception…

Breast orgasms are possible. And beautiful!

 It's true, women can have wonderful breast orgasms. Breasts are under appreciated as a sumptuous source of sexual pleasure. Worse, they are too often ignored in the sensuous beauty of not only foreplay but in the full journey to orgasmic…

Let’s talk the number of past sex partners.

Uh ... no! Talking about past 'lessons learned,' sure. Numbers? No! There is a right and wrong way to talk about a person's sexual history and asking the number of sex partners is not one of them. Ever! Talking about past sexual experiences,…

Fake orgasms are in decline but …

'we've got a long way to go baby.' (4 min) "58% of women report faking orgasms but the vast majority, 67% (of the 58%), no longer do." Just do the math. 4-in-10 women are still faking and undermining the relationship and the sexual fulfillment…

Doing Kegel exercises during sex can

harnesses your pelvic superpower and vagina magic. Kegels during sex can be some of the best sexercise you ever do – for you and your penis-owning partner. And the orgasms – his and yours – can be orgasmic! A strong pelvic floor can…

How do you cook up happy, horny, holiday sex?

Mix well, stir often and let simmer as long as emotionally possible. Then start the festive season. The leftovers are delicious. We've posted a clever Christmassy blog from "V FOR VIBES," How to have Sensational Holiday Sex that offers up…
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Reverse cowgirl can be “dangerous!”

for the health of your penis. Caveat owners – and renters. (3 min) "50% of penile fractures happen in the reverse cowgirl position." – Dr. Karan Raj. The reverse cowgirl can be dangerous to the health of your penis – whether you're…
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Numbers tell the naked truth

The numbers don't lie. And they help keep you in the conversation – facts, insights, tips, links and funnies for partners to share, mull, muse, explore and discover. Women and stress – the hidden disease From TEDx Talk: The…
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Truth and nothing but the truth in sex – no fucking way!

A survey from Superdrug Online revealed that when 'size matters' in sex, dishonesty is the biggest thing in the bedroom that comes between men and women. A major finding was that people tend to claim they are honest about sexual satisfaction…
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A woman’s clitoris can be a surgical victim

because she has been  "shaped by civilization," not reality. In the modern vernacular, doctors know fuck all about the female clitoris. And today, in western civilization, medical practitioners continue female genital mutilation out of ignorance…
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The naughty, sexy facts on women over forty.

And those in their 50s and 60s aren't far behind. This fact-filled article (quick 2 min read) from Women's Weekly, Australia, is not only an eye-opener, but could open up the sex lives of millions of women around the world as Australian women…
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Illicit encounters are a booming affair and …

there are wonderful websites dedicated to the state of affairs From UK survey by IllicitEncounters: IllicitEncounters, in the UK claims to have had over 1,000,000 users since 2004. That's a lot of extra-marital affairs! Ashley Madison,…
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The wisdom of midlife sex is essential to …

living life to the fullest and being true to ourselves Someone once said, "Life is all practice until your forty." Perspicacious. And mostly true. Especially in our sex lives. Some of us learn from practice and trial and error, others don't,…
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The number of women having orgasms is in decline

and even before, it wasn't worth a good fuck. WTF? Somebody do something. Women? Men? Both? The amount we ignore the necessity of a woman's pleasure is unacceptable! Sex is about a lot more than just fucking and anything less than women…
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Funny TED TALK on orgasmic enlightenment

at the intersection of sex and science. Nobody has more fun talking about sex than Mary Roach. And writing about it, as she does in her blockbuster book, Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Sex and Science. Watch her 31 million viewed TED TALK first,…
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The truth and a few facts will set you free …

from an overdose of penis size anxiety. Two-thirds, 68%, of men are concerned about the size of their penis even though 90% of all men have what is defined as an "average size." WTF? Get over it. And stop thinking about changing it. And yet,…
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What’s your favorite sex position and …

how many partners have you had sex with in your lifetime? Here's some graphic numbers from Esquire for comparison:  
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The average number of sex partners by country

Americans and Canadians are on the short end of the stick, so to speak From durex Sex Global Survey (from 2005 - a little old but you get the idea) FYI: On average, there are 120 million acts of sexual intercourse worldwide, every day. …
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Huge study ‘tells me what you want” …

and all about your fantasies – everything. From the book, Tell Me What You Want (read book review) “What we do (and who we do) in our sex lives isn’t necessarily an accurate reflection of our deeper, underlying wants.” Based on an…
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Men – time’s up, you’ve had thousands of years and …

now, only women can fix this mess – #MeToo   One-hundred-and-fifty years ago Charles Darwin told us that it takes 'two to tango' – not his phrasing, he called it 'sexual selection' – and yet the domineering males of our species…
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Women’s Preferences for Penis Size: New Research

Women's Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models PMC (PubMed Central) US National Library of Medicine National Institutes of Health https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4558040/https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/ Nicole…
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Sad sex facts and myths about women …

WTF? Can't somebody tell the truth? Women don't just suffer from centuries of myopic, misogynistic, patriarchal cruelty, they suffer from contemporary ignorance that undermines their natural birthright – a healthy, fulfilling sex life. "Great…
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Hooking up and sex …

when you're young 'ain't' all it's supposed to be "Our generation is wonderfully outspoken, but it’s time we learned to listen as well. Who we love is a reflection of what we value, so what do we value? We would do well to examine our lives…
Human sexuality is somewhere between badly broken and dead
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A New Year’s Letter From The Editors

(2.5 minute read) A Happy New Year to all our readers and members! 46% of women prefer a good-night’s sleep to sex. 54.6% of women fake orgasm / men 16/4%. If ever there was a New Year's resolution that needs to be made and pursued by…
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Sexual frequency is a telltale for the health of a relationship

And it's different in a marriage than cohabitation – a lot different The outcome of most research approximates this rule of thumb: 80% of the findings confirm what we already knew; 10% confirms what we thought we knew; and 10% tells us something…
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The fear in sex: It’s rampant and frightening

The top two fears in the first graph below ("Top Ten Fears") are worth worrying about, the rest are a damn shame – shame being the operative word. And guys, there's an opportunity in some of the other numbers, particularly in the phallic looking…