In sex, do your 5 Senses get a high-five …

or a thumbs down? 👎🏼 Mirror, mirror on the wall, tell me I use them all. Most women (and men) do not intentionally and skillfully use their magnificent 5 senses during sex – before, during and after. And we don't know what we're missing.…

How much do penis “girl inches” matter?

Maybe no more than "vagina inches?" Why do women overestimate penis size? The internet is overflowing with information, facts and factoids on penis size and one phenomenon is called "girl inches." This refers to women overestimating the…

True story: If the sex is boring now …

it won't get any better after marriage. Stay single! From New York magazine's Sex Diaries we've posted a recent single woman's diary entry about one week in her sex life: Hooking Up With Her Partner Between Work Calls. Talk about boring…

Sex games – stop playing mind games and …

get into playing some hot sexy games! Sex sure as hell is no damn game and yet too many of us play it as a "mind game." Don't. Instead get yourself one of these 13 board games and your sex life may never be bored again. As in any game, the…

Breast orgasms are possible. And beautiful!

 It's true, women can have wonderful breast orgasms. Breasts are under appreciated as a sumptuous source of sexual pleasure. Worse, they are too often ignored in the sensuous beauty of not only foreplay but in the full journey to orgasmic…

Let’s talk the number of past sex partners.

Uh ... no! Talking about past 'lessons learned,' sure. Numbers? No! There is a right and wrong way to talk about a person's sexual history and asking the number of sex partners is not one of them. Ever! Talking about past sexual experiences,…

Fake orgasms are in decline but …

'we've got a long way to go baby.' (4 min) "58% of women report faking orgasms but the vast majority, 67% (of the 58%), no longer do." Just do the math. 4-in-10 women are still faking and undermining the relationship and the sexual fulfillment…

Doing Kegel exercises during sex can

harnesses your pelvic superpower and vagina magic. Kegels during sex can be some of the best sexercise you ever do – for you and your penis-owning partner. And the orgasms – his and yours – can be orgasmic! A strong pelvic floor can…

How do you cook up happy, horny, holiday sex?

Mix well, stir often and let simmer as long as emotionally possible. Then start the festive season. The leftovers are delicious. We've posted a clever Christmassy blog from "V FOR VIBES," How to have Sensational Holiday Sex that offers up…
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Reverse cowgirl can be “dangerous!”

for the health of your penis. Caveat owners – and renters. (3 min) "50% of penile fractures happen in the reverse cowgirl position." – Dr. Karan Raj. The reverse cowgirl can be dangerous to the health of your penis – whether you're…
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Numbers tell the naked truth

The numbers don't lie. And they help keep you in the conversation – facts, insights, tips, links and funnies for partners to share, mull, muse, explore and discover. Women and stress – the hidden disease From TEDx Talk: The…
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Truth and nothing but the truth in sex – no fucking way!

A survey from Superdrug Online revealed that when 'size matters' in sex, dishonesty is the biggest thing in the bedroom that comes between men and women. A major finding was that people tend to claim they are honest about sexual satisfaction…
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The naughty, sexy facts on women over forty.

And those in their 50s and 60s aren't far behind. This fact-filled article (quick 2 min read) from Women's Weekly, Australia, is not only an eye-opener, but could open up the sex lives of millions of women around the world as Australian women…
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Illicit encounters are a booming affair and …

there are wonderful websites dedicated to the state of affairs From UK survey by IllicitEncounters: IllicitEncounters, in the UK claims to have had over 1,000,000 users since 2004. That's a lot of extra-marital affairs! Ashley Madison,…
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What’s your favorite sex position and …

how many partners have you had sex with in your lifetime? Here's some graphic numbers from Esquire for comparison:  
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Huge study ‘tells me what you want” …

and all about your fantasies – everything. From the book, Tell Me What You Want (read book review) “What we do (and who we do) in our sex lives isn’t necessarily an accurate reflection of our deeper, underlying wants.” Based on an…
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Sad sex facts and myths about women …

WTF? Can't somebody tell the truth? Women don't just suffer from centuries of myopic, misogynistic, patriarchal cruelty, they suffer from contemporary ignorance that undermines their natural birthright – a healthy, fulfilling sex life. "Great…
Human sexuality is somewhere between badly broken and dead
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A New Year’s Letter From The Editors

(2.5 minute read) A Happy New Year to all our readers and members! 46% of women prefer a good-night’s sleep to sex. 54.6% of women fake orgasm / men 16/4%. If ever there was a New Year's resolution that needs to be made and pursued by…