What are the three biggest sex problems?

1) Ego 2) Dishonesty 3) Lack of effort Research: 85% of men think their female partner climaxed; only 64% of women did. Half of women fake orgasms so "his feelings are not hurt" (or to end the sexual encounter). 89% of women orgasm if…

SEXNEWS in BRIEF

So much to know so little time!   Archives: Welcome to the archives of SEXNEWS in BRIEF July 13, 2022: Post-Roe v. Wade, do we really know WTF ‘getting pregnant’ means? 😱 In many ways, it has fucked up our fucking life (a.k.a.…

Sex, sex, sex – it’s trending …

more likes, more engagement, more followers, more menstrubation! Here is what's trending in sex in 2022 and what to get excited about. From menstrubation (self-pleasure during period), adaptive sex, supplements (including CBD lube) to sex wearables…
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Numbers tell the naked truth

The numbers don't lie. And they help keep you in the conversation – facts, insights, tips, links and funnies for partners to share, mull, muse, explore and discover. Women and stress – the hidden disease From TEDx Talk: The…
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Truth and nothing but the truth in sex – no fucking way!

A survey from Superdrug Online revealed that when 'size matters' in sex, dishonesty is the biggest thing in the bedroom that comes between men and women. A major finding was that people tend to claim they are honest about sexual satisfaction…
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A woman’s clitoris can be a surgical victim

because she has been  "shaped by civilization," not reality. In the modern vernacular, doctors know fuck all about the female clitoris. And today, in western civilization, medical practitioners continue female genital mutilation out of ignorance…
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Illicit encounters are a booming affair and …

there are wonderful websites dedicated to the state of affairs From UK survey by IllicitEncounters: IllicitEncounters, in the UK claims to have had over 1,000,000 users since 2004. That's a lot of extra-marital affairs! Ashley Madison,…
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The wisdom of midlife sex is essential to …

living life to the fullest and being true to ourselves Someone once said, "Life is all practice until your forty." Perspicacious. And mostly true. Especially in our sex lives. Some of us learn from practice and trial and error, others don't,…
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The number of women having orgasms is in decline

and even before, it wasn't worth a good fuck. WTF? Somebody do something. Women? Men? Both? The amount we ignore the necessity of a woman's pleasure is unacceptable! Sex is about a lot more than just fucking and anything less than women…
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Funny TED TALK on orgasmic enlightenment

at the intersection of sex and science. Nobody has more fun talking about sex than Mary Roach. And writing about it, as she does in her blockbuster book, Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Sex and Science. Watch her 31 million viewed TED TALK first,…
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The truth and a few facts will set you free …

from an overdose of penis size anxiety. Two-thirds, 68%, of men are concerned about the size of their penis even though 90% of all men have what is defined as an "average size." WTF? Get over it. And stop thinking about changing it. And yet,…
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The average number of sex partners by country

Americans and Canadians are on the short end of the stick, so to speak From durex Sex Global Survey (from 2005 - a little old but you get the idea) FYI: On average, there are 120 million acts of sexual intercourse worldwide, every day. …
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Huge study ‘tells me what you want” …

and all about your fantasies – everything. From the book, Tell Me What You Want (read book review) “What we do (and who we do) in our sex lives isn’t necessarily an accurate reflection of our deeper, underlying wants.” Based on an…
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Men – time’s up, you’ve had thousands of years and …

now, only women can fix this mess – #MeToo   One-hundred-and-fifty years ago Charles Darwin told us that it takes 'two to tango' – not his phrasing, he called it 'sexual selection' – and yet the domineering males of our species…
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Women’s Preferences for Penis Size: New Research

Women's Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models PMC (PubMed Central) US National Library of Medicine National Institutes of Health https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4558040/https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/ Nicole…
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Hooking up and sex …

when you're young 'ain't' all it's supposed to be "Our generation is wonderfully outspoken, but it’s time we learned to listen as well. Who we love is a reflection of what we value, so what do we value? We would do well to examine our lives…
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Sexual frequency is a telltale for the health of a relationship

And it's different in a marriage than cohabitation – a lot different The outcome of most research approximates this rule of thumb: 80% of the findings confirm what we already knew; 10% confirms what we thought we knew; and 10% tells us something…
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The fear in sex: It’s rampant and frightening

The top two fears in the first graph below ("Top Ten Fears") are worth worrying about, the rest are a damn shame – shame being the operative word. And guys, there's an opportunity in some of the other numbers, particularly in the phallic looking…
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Does size matter? Depends …

on the size, structure and purpose of what you're referring to There's much talk, much research, much myth and plenty of bullshit, but in the end, research shows that "size matters" to women. But wait, it not just about the penis. Hang on guys,…
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Four factors that make a company a great place for women

Spoiler alert: Just because you have women in leadership doesn’t guarantee that women at all levels are going to be supported The Wharton Social Impact Initiative released a report that provides a plethora of specific findings from hundreds…
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The Importance of Male Ejaculation for Female Sexual Satisfaction and Function

From: The Journal of Sexual Medicine, Volume 16, Issue 7, July 2019 "This is the very first study to explore the importance of male ejaculation volume and intensity for women’s sexual functioning. Data are of self-report nature and ejaculation…
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Are men disposable? A new study

Original by Maria Kouloglout, Quillette, June, 2019 A 2016 study published in Social Psychological and Personality Science found that people are more willing to sacrifice men than women in a time of crisis and that they are more willing to…