What’s your favorite sex toy?

Here are six favorites from a professional sex writer (she's tested dozens). 40% of Americans over 18 have spent over $100 on sex toys in the last 12 months. – BedBible.com But before you spend you might want to hear what some of the experts…
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Are chairs great sex toys?

Can be if you know how ... and are careful. 78% of Americans over 18 own at least one sex toy as of 2022, increased from 65% in 2017. Better still, everybody owns some furniture and chairs can be great sex toys. If a room has a chair, it's…

Sex furniture … shop ’til you drop!

Great sex, great bargains. It's Xmas, Black Friday & Valentine's rolled into one! Decorating your home with sex furniture, whether it's a bachelorette apartment or a McMansion, can be the ultimate shopping trip for any woman who loves great…

Sex toys & your clitoris … constant companions?

They should be! After you have your first penis you should buy your first sex toy. Or before. Discovering the magnificence of the clitoris is still one of history's long-standing, unsolved mysteries. Caught somewhere between shame, ignorance…

Brush up on the “Dos-and-Don’ts” of sex toys

and know the 10 household items NOT to use during sex! Here's a must-read article if you're into improvising with sex toys and sometimes grab something handy around the house. Cucumber? Jalapeños? ... Don't! The title of the article…
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Vibrator is #1 favorite sex accessory. What’s #2?

 What's your fave sex accessory? A recent survey by O School covered some but not all sex accessories. At 42% vibrators are the #1 go-to favorite. At 19% lubricant is #2 (surprised it's not a higher percentage). Two missing Of…
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46% of couples are into more sexual bondage and experimentation!

Pursuing post-pandemic sexual adventure is expanding! "46% say they’re engaging in more sexual experimentation." – Kinsey Report. So tie him up – and vice versa! Here's an article from Insidehook by Kayla Kibbe (one of our faves),…
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DIY porn films: Capture the intimacy, enjoy reruns!

Create your own shade of 50 Shades of Grey. DIY porn filming can capture the intimate wonders of your sexual connection – just you and your partner – and lift your love-making memories way above amateur selfies. But you need to know what…
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What’s in your nightstand?

Maybe it holds a secret or two about your sex life? Or not. (2 min) Lori Hughes shares the four "must-haves" she has in her nightstand. And why? "I used to have a large nightstand filled with all kinds of 'stuff.' But I'm a minimalist so…
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Sex toys can be sex-after-40’s best friend …

but shopping for them can be a bit overwhelming. (a fascinating 7 minute shopping guide) "Not only do you have to figure out what everything does, you also have to figure out if it aligns with how you like it to be done." Browse to your hearts…
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Books are a woman’s best sex toys

Batteries not required, usable in public, can hold in one hand (2 min). Women who read erotic books have 74% more sex than women who do not. Research in The Journal of Sex Research by Harold Leitenberg found that “women who read romance…
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97% of people frequently have sexual fantasies and

sex with multiple partners is the fantasy of choice If you are not fantasizing, you are in the minority – and with such lack of interest in sex you probably haven't even read this far. For all the rest of you, welcome to the crowd. Fantasy…
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Why is “sex ed” all about sex, lies and more lies?

"I’m shocked that we’re still not admitting to young people that a lot of the reasons we have sex is because it feels really, really good.” – Andrea Barrica, CEO, O.school. Why do we lie to teens about sex? Not just fibs. But downright,…
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What It’s Like to Be a Female Who Ejaculates. Orgasms on a whole new level

"I'd become terribly afraid—'dick shy,' the boys my age would say." In pre-Google 1996 ... we all bought into the mythical value of virginity [which] had the unintended effect of encouraging creative experimentation. Oral sex was okay.…
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If BDSM is good for Billions how many people are …

really into it? Tens-of-millions. And millions fantasize about it (2 min read) "64.6% of Canadian women had fantasies about being dominated sexually. 53.3% of men fantasized about being dominated sexually." – Journal of Sexual Medicine Eight…
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Covid-19 and the new ‘normal’ in BDSM means …

 Dominatrices must find new ways to satisfy clients – no whips "Amid this national crisis, many of us find more men seeking this holistic connection with dommes." Playboy's insightful article shows how professional dommes and their clients…
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Playboy gifts – in case you forgot your Valentine on the 14th

Here's a chance at redemption, more fun and continuing a revolution. When Playboy was introduced to the uptight, prude, hypocritical world in 1953, with the 1950s sex bombshell, Marilyn Monroe on the cover, it began a sexual revolution as a…
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The Story of O – Review

“I read Story of O and I think, you know, if you’ve read Story of O you’ve kind of read the ultimate.” —J. K. ROWLING J. K. Rowling knows a thing or two about "the ultimate" in storytelling and when it comes to the ultimate in erotic,…
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Black Friday is gone, stress lingers, and your sex is now 50-60% off!

You may have missed the Black Friday Special on this vibrator (20% off) but even at regular price this sex toy might be the gift that keeps on giving – and worth every penny. Here are two articles that claim vibrators can be "the ultimate…
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Porn and a parental naïveté gap is fucking up a lot of teens.

“Our parents bring us up to have good manners, a work ethic. But nobody brings us up to behave well in bed.” Why do we ignore one of the most powerful forces embedded in every teenager – sexual curiosity? It's a curse. It's a naïveté…
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Sex as it could be? Should be? And certainly has been

The Oneida Community Mansion, built between 1861-1878, is, today, a museum of ... depending on your point of view, either cult sex, a social order created on sexual pleasure, or a school of utopian, sexual theory and beliefs. As its founder,…
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The Breast

Must-read rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ Must-read ratings (1♥ – 5♥) are based on our opinion of the book’s contribution to understanding, enjoyment and entertainment in all things related to love, sex & success Be careful what you wish…
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The Sexus of Henry Miller

Must-read rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ Must-read ratings (1♥ – 5♥) are based on our opinion of the book’s contribution to  understanding, enjoyment and entertainment in all things related to love, sex & success (3 minute read + a Sexus…
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10 Unfiltered Sex Tips for the Best Action You’ve Ever Gotten. Plus the best sex toys according to experts.

When it comes to knowing what makes your partner tick in the bedroom, tutorials on "mind-blowing sex positions" only get you so far. Stimulating and gratifying sex is all in the timing, the communication, and spontaneity, according to Dr. Bea…
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Pornography – an old perspective that’s still fucked up

"Ever since our Puritan Republic became a gaudy empire, pornography has been big business for the simple reason that freedom of expression is joined with the freedom to make a lot of money." – Gore Vidal, 1966 Vidal wrote a marvelous essay…
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What It’s Really Like to Have a Threesome

[A chat with three women – twenty-six, twenty-two and forty] When it comes to threesomes, there’s a lot of planning involved to make it happen. If you were to go by TV or movie standards, it’s rarely the wordless kissing of a tangle…
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Fanny Hill: Memoirs of a Woman of Pleasure

Must-read rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ Must-read ratings (1♥ - 5♥) are based on our opinion of the book's contribution to  understanding, enjoyment and entertainment in all things related to love, sex & success The hypocrisy of sex:…
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Inside the Wild World of “Pony Play” Sex

How pretending to be a horse helped me explore my own humanity. "I stripped down to a bra and panties, and Cowboy fitted me in a leather body harness with an attached tail and a head piece with a mane." Empowerment has been my guiding…
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17 Sex Toys for Men

There are so many sex toys and so little knowledge – or willingness to explore – but these 17 selected by Esquire certainly cover a good range, and as they say, "The one thing men often forget is that pleasure can come (pun intended) in…