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Numbers tell the naked truth

The numbers don't lie. And they help keep you in the conversation – facts, insights, tips, links and funnies for partners to share, mull, muse, explore and discover. Women and stress – the hidden disease From TEDx Talk: The…
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Truth and nothing but the truth in sex – no fucking way!

A survey from Superdrug Online revealed that when 'size matters' in sex, dishonesty is the biggest thing in the bedroom that comes between men and women. A major finding was that people tend to claim they are honest about sexual satisfaction…
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The orgasm: What do women want?

Research shows women's preferences and experiences vary widely There's a good article from Medical News Today that indicates how much societal norms and the media heavily influence how we view women’s orgasms.  Here are a few highlights. …
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Illicit encounters are a booming affair and …

there are wonderful websites dedicated to the state of affairs From UK survey by IllicitEncounters: IllicitEncounters, in the UK claims to have had over 1,000,000 users since 2004. That's a lot of extra-marital affairs! Ashley Madison,…
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The Case of the Female Orgasm …

and the "semen replacement theory"     Every woman should know about the "Semen Replacement Theory" These excellent featured illustrations (above) depict the workings of  the "semen displacement theory," which is explained…

‘Sex in America’ in 2020

The numbers don't lie. We're very average or flunking. Men's Health surveyed Americans of all kinds about orgasms, kinks, threesomes, and more. And we're sharing a slice of what they found. There's more but this will whet your sexual appetite…

First the sex, then maybe love

Millennials going right past the first date to the bedroom. From New York Post: First comes sex, then comes love. Millennials are 48 percent more likely than others to slip between the sheets before a first date to see if there is a spark…
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The number of women having orgasms is in decline

and even before, it wasn't worth a good fuck. WTF? Somebody do something. Women? Men? Both? The amount we ignore the necessity of a woman's pleasure is unacceptable! Sex is about a lot more than just fucking and anything less than women…
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The truth and a few facts will set you free …

from an overdose of penis size anxiety. Two-thirds, 68%, of men are concerned about the size of their penis even though 90% of all men have what is defined as an "average size." WTF? Get over it. And stop thinking about changing it. And yet,…
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What’s your favorite sex position and …

how many partners have you had sex with in your lifetime? Here's some graphic numbers from Esquire for comparison:  
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The average number of sex partners by country

Americans and Canadians are on the short end of the stick, so to speak From durex Sex Global Survey (from 2005 - a little old but you get the idea) FYI: On average, there are 120 million acts of sexual intercourse worldwide, every day. …
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Huge study ‘tells me what you want” …

and all about your fantasies – everything. From the book, Tell Me What You Want (read book review) “What we do (and who we do) in our sex lives isn’t necessarily an accurate reflection of our deeper, underlying wants.” Based on an…
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Hooking up and sex …

when you're young 'ain't' all it's supposed to be "Our generation is wonderfully outspoken, but it’s time we learned to listen as well. Who we love is a reflection of what we value, so what do we value? We would do well to examine our lives…