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Why do couples stop having sex?

It's not what you think – and it's quite often"okay." Sometimes you simply don’t want to want sex. And that’s ok! Sexual desire is complicated and there are many reasons our sexual desire declines. And "ageing doesn't erase sexual desire…

Don’t let the sun set on your post-menopausal sex life …

Mind-blowing sex can still be part of the ride! “Numerous post-menopausal women are not having sex, but want to." Mother nature did not envision women being sexually active after menopause and for many after-menopause sex can be uncomfortable…

Can the age gap negate the orgasm gap?

We've got research on both  ... and it's good news! Older men, younger woman. Older woman, younger man – WTF is the problem? The age gap is as natural as ... well, nature itself. And yet cultural criticism, and the cynics, never stop with…

“Yeah” … over-50 sex gets better and better!

at least for half of you. We don't know if Sandra Bullock is happy because she's 58 or because she's enjoying great sex – or both! What we do know is that almost half the women over 50 say they are having better sex as they age. 45% of adults…

How do you get the sexual excitement back?

Slapping? Spanking? Watching porn? Being vulnerable? "Sexual boredom is common but not inevitable." – Dr. Ian Kerner Rekindling your sex life takes a little effort, a good dose of knowledge and some loving understanding. Especially an understanding…

Sex after 50: “How often” no longer matters …

Because sexual frequency is not connected to your happiness! It's true. Relax. After 50 many things get better ... and better. And sex can be one of them. It's not the quantity, it's the quality. Of course, quality has always been important…
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Is your vagina “fine?” Does she agree?

If you actually asked your vagina, she'd probably say, "No!" Don't accept "fine" as "good enough" for your vagina. Because "good enough, isn't!" If your vagina isn't enjoying a magnificent sex life then something is wrong. And that's on you…
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Who doesn’t want to be happy?

Everybody wants to be happy, few know how. This book can change that.   (3 min read) Tell me and I'll probably forget. Show me and I might remember. Let me do it, and I'll never forget. – Chinese proverb This book will "tell you"…

Are you missing “sexploration” & “sexperimentation?”

It deepens relationships, creating openness, honesty, intimacy and trust. [ ⏰ 6 min] Sex should always have boundaries – set by you – but those boundaries should always be open to your deepest desires and wildest fantasies. Your sexual…

Great sex should never be a surprise …

at anytime, anywhere, any age. Never! The reality is ... too many women are having unsatisfying sex – about 54 million, everyday. Worldwide there are 120 million acts of sexual intercourse everyday and approximately 45% of those are unsatisfactory…
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The “Upward-Facing Dog” can be …

a great position in your 'fucking-workout' routine. (6 min) Yogic sexuality is the wonderful combination of yoga and sex ... "hot yoga." Sexual yoga is like traditional yoga and dates back thousands of years and focuses on combining breath,…

After-50, ‘circular sex’ can be endless bliss

with no goal, no end point, no orgasm, no 'failure.' There is no such thing as a 'perfect circle' but circular sex is designed to move you toward sexual perfection. Orgasms are not the end game of sex, especially with after-50 sex. Here's…
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“There’s still life in the old broad.”

If any woman knows anything about "life in the old broad," it's Jane Fonda! Jane is 83 and going strong – and getting better. Here's a 2 minute video that should be an inspiration to any woman from teenager to octogenarian. “It’s great…
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How CBD affects your libido and …

where it can have a place in your sex life. (6 min) You can bring CBD products into your sex life in a variety of ways and here's an article from Healthline about what the research is telling us as to how and why it works. Applying…
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Hey mom! Is licorice good for orgasms?

Can be! Cannabis and CBD in licorice is great source of 'cool, calm and wow! (2 min) "Mom" is not only the name of an award-winning TV sitcom, it's also the name for millions of cool, competent, tough, sexy women who are moms 24/7/365. And…
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Better sex with CBD and cannabis!

If Kim Kardashian, Bubba Watson and Martha Stewart’s bulldog use it, it's probably a "good thing." From better sex and better orgasms to relief of stress and pain, CBD and cannabis are faves with hundreds of millions of people wanting to…
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Postpartum sex: How soon? How often?

You can be both loving parents and loving sex partners! There's a lot to consider. Don't just jump straight into intercourse. And yes, wait "6 weeks," as recommended by most doctors. But sex can be much more than penis-in-vagina! Here's…
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Meet the women leading a sex revolution for seniors

Sex after 70 has never been better. "We were having such a glorious sex life that I didn’t understand why this was such a hush-hush topic." says Joan Price a high school English teacher for 22 years. She was divorced and never had kids. It…
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20 penis sizes and shapes … and they’re all good!

There’s no such thing as a bad shape or size — just bad information on how to use it. (7 min) "Penises are as unique as the people they hang from, and they’re all good. More than good, really." Penis owners and penis renters need to…
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Your vagina is not dead she is …

taking a nap. A clarion call for women and sex after 40. (2 min) You can have the best sex of your life after 40 and this book shows you the path. We slightly paraphrased Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith who said, "She's not dead, she's taking a…
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Every women should see these photos & read the stories

Laura Dodsworth photographed 100 vulvas and this book exposes them and their beautiful stories. It is the ultimate in sharing. Reading this book is as valuable as having a deep, honest conversation with an intimate friend, a sex therapists…
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Longer sex does not equal better sex!

Vaginas are durable but too long can ... cause long recovery times. "[Even though the] vagina is incredibly durable, it's important to know that if you want to go 'all night long,' you have a lube to take you through." – Marla Renee Stewart,…
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The Pregnant Widow ain’t what ya’ think she is

(7 min) This is a boomers' lament of a time of unrequited love, lust, sex and need. It's a book club bonanza for endless discussion of characters, human sexuality, feminism, lost lives and the writing genius of Martin Amis. The critics have…
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Everything you Need to Know …

about the Pelvic Floor, Exercise & Orgasms—like, yesterday "Feeble orgasm muscles just aren't the bearers of mind-blowing moments." When it comes to sex, your pelvic floor muscles can be a true "friend with benefits." But, unfortunately,…
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15-minute HIIT for better sex …

High-intensity Interval Training can be HIIS [high-intensity interval sex] And it works in yoga, stretching, Kegel exercises and relieves stress and lifts your libido. HIIT [and HIIS] is "the perfect balance between breaking a sweat and…
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“You don’t have to hate your husband …

to love this book." (5 min) "It's far better to ask for what you need than silently stew." Here's an excellent summary and review by Elisabeth McKnight of How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids. Every mother (and her partner) should…
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Sexual performance? You’re not in charge …

your brain is. And you're in your head too much! (4 min) "If our genitals could speak, they would tell us that they do not appreciate feeling pressured to perform." – Aurika Valan Being in your head can be a problem when it comes to 'giving…
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How are your pelvic floor and Kegel exercises doing?

From The Health Gap, “The Mystery of the Pelvic Floor:" Millions of women have problems with their pelvic floor and yet, most problems are minor. But who knows for sure? Kegel exercises for girls and young women are sometimes good, other times…
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Without masturbation – solo sex –

we cannot love a partner fully! (3 min) "It's sex with someone you love.” – Woody Allen Woody Allen understands the wonderful benefits of masturbation but tens-of-millions of people don't – especially women. Masturbation,…
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“Men” … what are they good for?

A helluva lot more than they actually think they are! #MeToo is a movement, and a good one. It's making headway and we've "come a long way baby," but still have a long way to go. And women aren't alone in needing a movement, so do men. Ladies,…