Tag Archive for: better sex

Astrology and sex can be a Titanic disaster

"What's your sign?" might be a good pick up line but that's about all it is! "Fact: Leos Are Amazing in Bed." – Cosmo article (see post) In the scene from the movie Titanic, Kate Winslet's Leo might have provided steamy sex but it's no indication…

SEXNEWS in BRIEF

So much to know so little time!   Archives: Welcome to the archives of SEXNEWS in BRIEF July 13, 2022: Post-Roe v. Wade, do we really know WTF ‘getting pregnant’ means? 😱 In many ways, it has fucked up our fucking life (a.k.a.…

“69” + imagination = ??? Do the math, get an A+

If you don't like "69ing" you're doing it wrong! You don't have to be a mathematician to know how to add great 69 to your sex life. It doesn't have to only be the old boring, gotta try it sometime, sex act. There is much to sexplore! If…

Road head is no joke …

it's an accident about to happen ... to cum. And quite unsatisfying. Just because Leonardo Di Caprio gets road head in a Ferrari in the opening of The Wolf of Wall Street, doesn't mean it's any good (they use stunt people in movies, ya' know).…

Wanna be sexier? Forget the eyes …

get acupuncture for your 'taint' – your perineum! “They don’t call it your 'taint' for nothing — it’s called the taint because t’ain’t your genitals and t’aint your anus.” Your perineum, both female and male, can be a…

In sex, do your 5 Senses get a high-five …

or a thumbs down? 👎🏼 Mirror, mirror on the wall, tell me I use them all. Most women (and men) do not intentionally and skillfully use their magnificent 5 senses during sex – before, during or after. And we don't know what we're missing.…

Yoga sex isn’t this hard and …

there are 5 positions that can give your sex life a real boost! [this isn't one of them – maybe for cunnilingus?] Certain poses can strengthen muscles and improve flexibility in ways that are particularly useful for better sex. Just take…

How “Doggie” can be a girl’s best friend.

Learn "heavenly" variations and doggie sex can be your 'new best friend!' The old cliche that 'a dog is a man's best friend' might still be hanging around but for women, knowing variations on doggie sex (other than 'ass-up-face-down') can be…
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Men fake orgasms too  – and surprise …

that can be a good thing! 28% of young, virile men have faked an orgasm We all know how much women fake orgasms (about 2/3) – too much – but we know very little about men faking. But they do. More than we realize. Whaaaat? Yep!  And…
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Are chairs great sex toys?

Can be if you know how ... and are careful. 78% of Americans over 18 own at least one sex toy as of 2022, increased from 65% in 2017. Better still, everybody owns some furniture and chairs can be great sex toys. If a room has a chair, it's…

Better sex: Fewer Kegels, more gluts.

"I'll drink to that." Upgrade your 'sexercise,' upgrade your sex. Kegel … Kegel … Kegel … what’s a woman to do? The best idea, do different sexercises. Because strengthening your Kegel muscles alone is not enough. If you want great…

Talking sex means knowing …

WTF you're talking about! We're coining a new term: Fucking stupidus (compound noun): It refers to someone who fucks without knowing much about what the fuck they're doing, has little interest in learning the magnificence of sex, and doesn't…
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Stop chasing the orgasm …

try sex mediation [one woman's story].   Irina Gonzalez, freelance writer for Glamour, wrote an intriguing story of her search for a better sex life through meditation. In her article (4 min read), she tells her story of sexual frustration,…

Fake orgasms are in decline but …

'we've got a long way to go baby.' (4 min) "58% of women report faking orgasms but the vast majority, 67% (of the 58%), no longer do." Just do the math. 4-in-10 women are still faking and undermining the relationship and the sexual fulfillment…
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Great sex at 20 can be bad sex at 40!

Unless you know and talk a lot about sex. That's a good point! In fact, there are many points that are so important to know if you want to have a fulfilling sex life throughout your life. If you know and understand yourself and sex, you…
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‘Sex without sex’ can include lots of orgasms

Yes, sex without sex can be beautifully intimate! There are many ways to enjoy intimacy with a partner without having intercourse and the exploration and discovery can be orgasmic – literally! "Sex without sex offers a vast and exciting…

Is it the death of the one-night stand?

 Maybe? And many of us "would want this" and welcome it. Post-pandemic fucking is going to be a whole fucking lot different and there's a lot of good news – mostly, for most of us. Of course, what we don't know is when this fucking pandemic…
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Vibrator is #1 favorite sex accessory. What’s #2?

 What's your fave sex accessory? A recent survey by O School covered some but not all sex accessories. At 42% vibrators are the #1 go-to favorite. At 19% lubricant is #2 (surprised it's not a higher percentage). Two missing Of…

What do singles really want? Don’t laugh!

 83% want emotional maturity. "Emotional maturity is the new sexy." Looking for emotional maturity might be a laughing matter for Jennifer Aniston but it's not for the majority of singles (let's face it, after two tries she's single again…

Iconic “69” is only 1-of-13 oral sex options

Explore beyond the tried-and-true oral sex positions There are many variations and new positions waiting for you beyond the iconic "69," the classic "sit-on-my-face" and the most regular, "lunch-at-the-Y." Here are two articles that can…

Sex diet: Eat your way to better sex!

"What we eat can affect how enjoyable sex is." – Shamyra Howard They say, 'we are what we eat' and perhaps nowhere is this more important than in our sex lives. The good news is that with the right sex diet we can eat our way to better sex. Here's…
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Was pandemic a sex and CBD ‘field of dreams?’

Sex and cannabis became a pleasure-inducing pairing during the pandemic At the height of the pandemic (summer 2020) a Playboy survey found "daily cannabis consumption increased and daily alcohol consumption decreased while people sheltered…
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“Missionary” in sex can be ordinary

or it can create the deepest, trusting connection. "His aggression finds its denouement in her yielding." The missionary position is consider by many as "ordinary" – same old, same old – but it doesn't have to be. Even though we often…
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Sex, cannabis, women and community.

We need more of all of them. It's on us girls ... let's lead! Can women turn the tide and close a widening gender gap in cannabis? Women unite! Sex, cannabis, women and our community need us. The gender gap is pervasive We know women…
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Everything you Need to Know …

about the Pelvic Floor, Exercise & Orgasms—like, yesterday "Feeble orgasm muscles just aren't the bearers of mind-blowing moments." When it comes to sex, your pelvic floor muscles can be a true "friend with benefits." But, unfortunately,…
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Your best sex toy might be a sex journal

and here are 10 questions to start your journal. TL;DR – okay, here are 3 of the 10 questions: 1) How satisfied are you with your current sex life? 2) What are your top three strengths as a lover? 3) What does 'sexy' mean to you? Go…
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The Secrets of Sexually Woke [a podcast]

If you do not have time to read Dr. Susan's book Sexually Woke: Awaken the Secrets to Your Best Sex Life in Midlife & Beyond then 55 minutes of your time is well invested listening to her podcast, which captures the essence of her most powerful…
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Sex toys can be sex-after-40’s best friend …

but shopping for them can be a bit overwhelming. (a fascinating 7 minute shopping guide) "Not only do you have to figure out what everything does, you also have to figure out if it aligns with how you like it to be done." Browse to your hearts…
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Six tips for the best sex of your life …

after 50. Hell, after 40. "Orgasm is not an event, it’s a process, and it starts and finishes with connection" – Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith Some perspicacious woman once said, "Until you are forty, it's all practice." Nowhere is that more…

5 Ways Good Sex Can Save Your Relationship

"Yes! Sex can save your relationship, even if you're not having a lot (or any) of it right now."   From Your tango (3 min read).