Tag Archive for: Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Beware the threesome …

because in real life they can be awkward – or worse! 95% of men and 87% of women have fantasized about multiple sex partners." – Dr. Justin Lehmiller Not knowing WTF your doing - literally – in a threesome is not good for the health…
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Want to start an intimate conversation?

This woman knows how. And tells us how in a great starter book "Watch their feet, not their mouth." The old axiom above is for measuring the value of a person's actions over their words – and it's a good guide – but Shamyra Howard's short,…
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Sexual fantasies are a true mirror and …

a beautiful reflection of ourselves and our relationships. (5 min) “89% [of us] fantasize about threesomes" [and] the majority of women have sexual fantasies about these three: threesomes, orgies and gangbangs. - TMWYW We've included…
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Friends With Benefits – NOT built to last.

'Built to last' is a Ford truck slogan and it sure as hell doesn't apply to FWB. On the surface, it might seem like a good idea, but it's up against science, evolution and genetics. In fact, it's maybe the worst idea ever. These two articles…
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Is sex without an orgasm …

good sex or failed sex? (4 min article) "Arching in bliss ... higher and higher ... and then ... nothing." It's not the "nothing" that is wrong, it's the expectation that's wrong. Expecting an orgasm and thinking an orgasm is "imperative"…
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Huge study ‘tells me what you want” …

and all about your fantasies – everything. From the book, Tell Me What You Want (read book review) “What we do (and who we do) in our sex lives isn’t necessarily an accurate reflection of our deeper, underlying wants.” Based on an…