Tag Archive for: Elephant Journal

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A woman’s body is a must-read if …

you expect a happy-ever-after ending. If 'knowledge is king' then the king of lovers is a man who knows the deep, divine, inner workings of a woman's body and how to read her every need, desire and most intimate responses. "I was lucky this…
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“To the guy who used me for sex …

I’m the girl you don’t deserve." – Amanda Kelly You can say that again! Amanda Kelly has written a pithy, perspicacious, open and honest dissertation on the flip side of misogyny. She gets it. And tells it like we would all like to…
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“No!” is a complete sentence and …

 all we princesses need to know how, when and where to use it. "I don’t understand the confusion around consent. It’s not complicated—it’s actually simple as fuck." Many of the problems around consent are nothing more than men reacting…
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“Show me a fucked up teen and …

I'll show you fucked up parents." This old maxim is self-evident in the facts found in a Harvard study that shows as a society we are failing our young people in guiding them in how to love (have sex] and develop romantic relationships. And…
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Yoga, sex and surrender …

a young woman in Paris surrenders to her yoga teacher. (4 min) "Yoga is a dance between surrender and control." – Joel Kramer. Charisse Glenn tells a beautiful story of her time in Paris when she discovered the "art of surrender" and "endless…
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Are yoga teachers better in bed?

"Yes, yes, oh god, yes!" (3 min) "They know theirs and they want to know yours." – Alexa Maxwell Alexa Maxwell is a student of yoga and by this article we think she's also a student of sex. In 3 minutes she gives you 5 reasons why yoga…
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Everything you Need to Know …

about the Pelvic Floor, Exercise & Orgasms—like, yesterday "Feeble orgasm muscles just aren't the bearers of mind-blowing moments." When it comes to sex, your pelvic floor muscles can be a true "friend with benefits." But, unfortunately,…
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“Cannasexual” (noun): Anyone who combines cannabis and sex …

to deepen intimacy, enhance pleasure and have better sex. (6 min) The Journal of Sexual Medicine published a Stanford study in 2017 researching whether heterosexual cannabis users had more, less or the same amount of sex as non-users. Fifty…
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Hindsight is worth a million ‘hook ups’

Did Covid sexual distancing teach us anything about casual sex? "I was eating men like a praying mantis ... it was a dependency." – Pavlina Fedakova In this 3 minute article one woman rips the veneer off of millions of women's emotional…
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Women … stop the fiction.

Don't choke off your orgasms! "Entire sectors of women do not even know the vast capacity for their body." – Lotus Indigo Shakti Kruse Here is an excellent article (by a guy no less), that slams the cultural shame and fiction that society…
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Your best sex toy might be a sex journal

and here are 10 questions to start your journal. TL;DR – okay, here are 3 of the 10 questions: 1) How satisfied are you with your current sex life? 2) What are your top three strengths as a lover? 3) What does 'sexy' mean to you? Go…
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How to let go of resentment–in 3 minutes

"Resentment is like putting on armor with inward spikes." – Brandilyn Tebo Short and sweet, this video by Brandilyn Tebo just might kick-start your efforts to rid yourself of resentment and release your authentic self into your own world…
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Sexual performance? You’re not in charge …

your brain is. And you're in your head too much! (4 min) "If our genitals could speak, they would tell us that they do not appreciate feeling pressured to perform." – Aurika Valan Being in your head can be a problem when it comes to 'giving…
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Erotic women can be leaders and this ode …

 "I am Woman" is a tribute to sexually empowered women. (3 min) "I am erotic. My sexual energy can be soft and sensual as well as provocative ... It’s a magical energy that I wouldn’t share with just anyone. You have to earn that privilege."…
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Let the magic of after-40 sex begin …

with an awakening that can be "magical." (4 min) "We have spent our whole adult lives trying to give ourselves to something outside of ourselves." – Debbi Serafinchon In just 4 minutes this article just might give you some insight as to…
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“Sexual kinks” are good for us and …

our sexual health, understanding and communications. (4 min read) "Our sexual fantasies, quirks and kinks aren’t just preferences, but powerful messages." So many more of us should give ourselves permission to embrace our fantasies. And…
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Six ways to “play with me” and …

they are all fantasies we can bring to life in the bedroom "We all fantasize, some more than others. A majority of women fantasize about the three most popular/common fantasies: Group sex, orgies, gangbangs. Threesomes: 89% Orgies:…
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None of us – men or women …

have learned how to have the kind of sex women love "Ever since we've had kids she ... [who can complete this sentence?] Bez Stone, a certified sex coach and, as important, a mother and wife, says that damn near every man and woman in a family…
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Lust is our inner lioness …

and she needs to be released – constantly! (Great article) [Lust is] "Owning that little kitty inside who wants to be a lioness, releasing her and listening for the soft purr to turn into a fierce, resounding roar." – Anne Clendening This…

What a “F*ckgirl” Brings to the Table

Am I a “fuckgirl?” – asks Jodi Felton* Allegedly, I am. I get accused of being one, and I know why this happens. It’s because I am fiercely independent, autonomous, content, attractive, and I do what I want, when I want. I’m…