Tag Archive for: Orgasms

“Frottage sex” – no penetration, lots of pleasure. Don’t say no until …

You know how hot it can be! Frottage: From the French word frott, which means "rub"— it's fun to say and fun to do. Sure, we all did a fair share of rubbing as teens – bumping and grinding while not knowing fuck all about sex. But it's…

💘 Cupid’s arrow doesn’t always hit the mark …

and knowing why is a wonderful, loving Valentine's Day gift ❣️ (3 min) Cupid's Poisoned Arrow is a tell-you-all-you-need-to-know book that will change what you think about cupid and Valentine's and orgasms. Yes, orgasms! And most important,…

40% of women do not create enough natural lubrication!

It's one of 8 reasons you're not orgasming. First figure out why you're not creating enough natural lubrication. It can be anything from too much stress to too little foreplay. Or medication. Or the wrong lubricant. We've posted an article,…
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TEDx TALK: “Sex is becoming an endangered species

and we've turned our back on it. TEDx Talk (11 min) Wow! This is a must-watch sex talk. It's takes less time to watch than the average time it takes a woman to reach orgasm (12 min). And this could lead you to orgasmic heights you've never…

Fake orgasms are in decline but …

'we've got a long way to go baby.' (4 min) "58% of women report faking orgasms but the vast majority, 67% (of the 58%), no longer do." Just do the math. 4-in-10 women are still faking and undermining the relationship and the sexual fulfillment…

After-50, ‘circular sex’ can be endless bliss

with no goal, no end point, no orgasm, no 'failure.' There is no such thing as a 'perfect circle' but circular sex is designed to move you toward sexual perfection. Orgasms are not the end game of sex, especially with after-50 sex. Here's…
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“I have never had an orgasm.” – Sherry

"I am afraid to have an orgasm." – Denise. “For me there’s a lot of shame wrapped up in this topic.” “I’m excited and I’m also terrified.” “I’ve spent my whole life running the other way. And I’m ready to stop doing…
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Give your clitoris the gift of knowledge.

Hallelujah to the man (and woman) who gets a Master’s Degree in "Clitorology." Who wouldn't want a master's degree in love-making? Any man (or woman) who does not is not a true lover, and never will be. It starts with Clitoris 101. "Understand…

Guys don’t understand female orgasms!

And many don't even try to get better. Men's orgasms are a sprint, women's a marathon. We don't know how George Clooney is in bed (Yeah, yeah ... but fantasies don't count) but we do know most men don't know much about the female orgasm and…
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Goopy sex wisdom or woo-woo?

Is Gwyneth Paltrow's new Netflix show destined to be another 'vagina steaming' disaster? After the gynecological outrage over her debunked 'vaginal steaming' practice and her false 'yoni egg' claims, we women might want to take her advice with…
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‘Cowgirl’ is much more than a sex position

it's the ride of your sex life if you know how. For a position that seemingly everyone's heard of, it takes a little finesse to ride your way to orgasm.  And there can be a lot of apprehension and questions: What to do with your hands? What…

Iconic “69” is only 1-of-13 oral sex options

Explore beyond the tried-and-true oral sex positions There are many variations and new positions waiting for you beyond the iconic "69," the classic "sit-on-my-face" and the most regular, "lunch-at-the-Y." Here are two articles that can…
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89% of us have had relationship sex issues

That's 9-of-10 of us missing out on a portion of one of life's greatest experiences. "This isn't just about sex, this is about your life." – Bez Stone Which of these two graphs looks like your life? (Bez Stone explains them in her revealing…

How do you have “coregasm” orgasms?

Focus your exercise routine on the pleasure in your core. There is a whole book written about how to have coregasm orgasms called, The Coregasm Workout by Dr. Debby Herenick. If you are into enjoying great orgasms and having fun exercising…
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Was pandemic a sex and CBD ‘field of dreams?’

Sex and cannabis became a pleasure-inducing pairing during the pandemic At the height of the pandemic (summer 2020) a Playboy survey found "daily cannabis consumption increased and daily alcohol consumption decreased while people sheltered…
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“Missionary” in sex can be ordinary

or it can create the deepest, trusting connection. "His aggression finds its denouement in her yielding." The missionary position is consider by many as "ordinary" – same old, same old – but it doesn't have to be. Even though we often…
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“Outerplay” leads to out-of-this-world orgasms

and all without penetration! Penetration is really just one of the tools in the toolbox, so to speak, and "outerplay" brings a whole new meaning to foreplay. In fact, it goes well beyond foreplay and can lead you to out-of-this-world orgasms…
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Longer sex does not equal better sex!

Vaginas are durable but too long can ... cause long recovery times. "[Even though the] vagina is incredibly durable, it's important to know that if you want to go 'all night long,' you have a lube to take you through." – Marla Renee Stewart,…
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Women … stop the fiction.

Don't choke off your orgasms! "Entire sectors of women do not even know the vast capacity for their body." – Lotus Indigo Shakti Kruse Here is an excellent article (by a guy no less), that slams the cultural shame and fiction that society…
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Why do women sexually disrespect and …

deny their sexual needs, and their partner's? (4 min) "57.1% of women want their partner to feel successful." This fake orgasm contagion is only going to get solved if we women resolve to change our nurturing, submissive, disrespectful treatment…
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How to masturbate with …

a Vagina: 28 Tips and Tricks for Solo Play. (7 min) "Sure, exercise is a great way to relieve stress and improve your sleep. But so is enjoying a little one-on-one time with you and your body." Any article with 28 tips about masturbation…
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Is sex without an orgasm …

good sex or failed sex? (4 min article) "Arching in bliss ... higher and higher ... and then ... nothing." It's not the "nothing" that is wrong, it's the expectation that's wrong. Expecting an orgasm and thinking an orgasm is "imperative"…
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Sex has no finish line and …

it's not a test. So why not be a better student? "We have sex like Kenyan marathon runners." – Olivia Wilde Olivia Wilde (born Olivia Cockburn) is an actress not a marathon runner so not sure if she knows that any runner that can complete…
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Books are a woman’s best sex toys

Batteries not required, usable in public, can hold in one hand (2 min). Women who read erotic books have 74% more sex than women who do not. Research in The Journal of Sex Research by Harold Leitenberg found that “women who read romance…

‘Sex in America’ in 2020

The numbers don't lie. We're very average or flunking. Men's Health surveyed Americans of all kinds about orgasms, kinks, threesomes, and more. And we're sharing a slice of what they found. There's more but this will whet your sexual appetite…
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What It’s Like to Be a Female Who Ejaculates. Orgasms on a whole new level

"I'd become terribly afraid—'dick shy,' the boys my age would say." In pre-Google 1996 ... we all bought into the mythical value of virginity [which] had the unintended effect of encouraging creative experimentation. Oral sex was okay.…