Tag Archive for: sexual empowerment

What’s your sex mindset?

It could be killing your sex life ... and your relationships? Anytime is a good time to rethink how your mindset impacts your sex life. Because it does. Significantly! "Dump him ... Fuck me once, shame on you; fuck me twice, shame on me."…

Is it the death of the one-night stand?

 Maybe? And many of us "would want this" and welcome it. Post-pandemic fucking is going to be a whole fucking lot different and there's a lot of good news – mostly, for most of us. Of course, what we don't know is when this fucking pandemic…
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Pussy owners need to know and talk more sex …

and know WTF we're talking about! As long as we leave the decisions about our sexual pleasure and well-being to our pussy, we will never have a lifetime of sexual fulfillment. Never! Our exquisite, wonderful, mysterious pussy needs us in…

Iconic “69” is only 1-of-13 oral sex options

Explore beyond the tried-and-true oral sex positions There are many variations and new positions waiting for you beyond the iconic "69," the classic "sit-on-my-face" and the most regular, "lunch-at-the-Y." Here are two articles that can…
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“Missionary” in sex can be ordinary

or it can create the deepest, trusting connection. "His aggression finds its denouement in her yielding." The missionary position is consider by many as "ordinary" – same old, same old – but it doesn't have to be. Even though we often…
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Sex, cannabis, women and community.

We need more of all of them. It's on us girls ... let's lead! Can women turn the tide and close a widening gender gap in cannabis? Women unite! Sex, cannabis, women and our community need us. The gender gap is pervasive We know women…
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“No!” is a complete sentence and …

 all we princesses need to know how, when and where to use it. "I don’t understand the confusion around consent. It’s not complicated—it’s actually simple as fuck." Many of the problems around consent are nothing more than men reacting…
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“Pick-Me-Girls” are insecure and fake …

like "Himpathy women" and their fake orgasms. These women sure as fuck aren't helping any of us. "Pick-Me-ism"and "himpathy" are the epitome of insecure, weak women desperate for male attention and willing to tear down other women to support…
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Is post-covid sex more adventurous or cautious?

Some of us now have FOGO (fear of going out) and FODA (fear of dating again). It's to be expected and we shouldn't be either guilt-ridden or dismissively 'don't-give-a-shit.' We should be reflective, thoughtful ... and do what's best for us.…
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Hindsight is worth a million ‘hook ups’

Did Covid sexual distancing teach us anything about casual sex? "I was eating men like a praying mantis ... it was a dependency." – Pavlina Fedakova In this 3 minute article one woman rips the veneer off of millions of women's emotional…
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Intellectual curiosity is a turn on for …

the sexual curiosity in your sapiosexuality (3 min). It's true. You might be a sapiosexual. And that's a good thing. And if your partner is ... wow! Remember, women who read about sex have 74% more sex. It gives erotica and reading about…
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“You don’t have to hate your husband …

to love this book." (5 min) "It's far better to ask for what you need than silently stew." Here's an excellent summary and review by Elisabeth McKnight of How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids. Every mother (and her partner) should…
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Stress is a libido crusher and …

you are not alone. It's way too fuckin' common! (6 min) Female sexual interest/arousal disorder (FSIAD) occurs when the body doesn’t respond to sexual stimulation. 40% of women experience some type of sexual dysfunction, such as FSIAD…
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If we don’t say “yes” authentically …

we say "yes" resentfully. And regrets follow. “If we don’t say yes authentically, we say yes resentfully, and that leads to far more problems than if we’d said no in the first place.” – Natalie Lue Here's a great article about the…
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Erotic women can be leaders and this ode …

 "I am Woman" is a tribute to sexually empowered women. (3 min) "I am erotic. My sexual energy can be soft and sensual as well as provocative ... It’s a magical energy that I wouldn’t share with just anyone. You have to earn that privilege."…
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What does sexual empowerment feel like?

And how can we feel empowered, every day? (3 min) "35% of women take a condom with them when going on a date where they may have sex for reasons like not wanting to seem presumptuous, not liking condoms, or being too embarrassed." All we…
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Sexual empowerment is not about quantity

it's about quality – and your sexual empowerment! (6 min) "Sexual empowerment can absolutely mean having a lot of sex, but it doesn't have to. You can also be having tons of sex and not be sexually empowered. What it boils down to is power…
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“Fuck Him … Fuck Tinder …

and take control of your dating and sex life – and the men in your life! "Fuck him in this case is not physical, it's mental." This short pithy, beautifully candid book, "Fuck Him! Nice Girls Always Finish Single" (we'd say unfulfilled…
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“Situationships are shit and …

they rarely end amicably." "They are unbalanced and divisive; they are valueless and demeaning; they are a passage to inevitable disappointment and a voyage into the bay of despair." – Rachael Nixon Situationships are not friends with benefits…
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Amy Schumer isn’t joking when it comes to …

sex, women's sexual needs and rampant sexual ignorance. Amy Schumer is funny, funny woman but she is as serious as fuck when it comes to speaking out about women's sexual inequality (here are a few video clips from Amy). And Sarah Barmak is…
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“Choose to Challenge” – International Women’s Day, March 8, 2021

The challenge: Read more sex! The reward: Have more sex (3 min read) In our opinion ... 'IWD' should be any day that a woman does not feel sexually fulfilled. It's a right, not a wish! Sometimes, as a woman, I just get tired of challenging…